This song is pretty easy to understand but some are reading too much into it.
She was so in love with him and he can't understand how he doesn't "own" her anymore. The relationship was too easy for him but that's what he considers love. (Maybe he's incapable of loving back) He was resigned to stay in the relationship because it was effortless on his part but it made him lonely and sad therefore he wasn't upset when it ended. The "sadness" that he was addicted to was the fact that he could do whatever he wanted and still be in complete control of her.
Now he can't deal with the fact that she actually moved on. She realizes what happened. He screwed her over, made her believe it was her own doing. Why would she want him in her life anymore?
He doesn't get it. The dude is more than likely narcissistic.
@lolhahaha The male is a malignant Narcissist. He blames her for everything that is wrong in the relationship rather than be an adult and accepting his responsibility in the toxic relationship. She, the victim, feels screwed over and the only way that she can find peace is to "cut him off", in other words, going "no contact". He\'s angry because he\'s lost his ability to control her in any way. He\'s so bad that she has to send people to retrieve her belongings because she knows he\'ll try to lure her back in and nothing is ever going to...
@lolhahaha The male is a malignant Narcissist. He blames her for everything that is wrong in the relationship rather than be an adult and accepting his responsibility in the toxic relationship. She, the victim, feels screwed over and the only way that she can find peace is to "cut him off", in other words, going "no contact". He\'s angry because he\'s lost his ability to control her in any way. He\'s so bad that she has to send people to retrieve her belongings because she knows he\'ll try to lure her back in and nothing is ever going to change. She\'s accepted that he will never change, he wasn\'t the person that he portrayed himself to be and she has no choice but to move on.
This song is pretty easy to understand but some are reading too much into it.
She was so in love with him and he can't understand how he doesn't "own" her anymore. The relationship was too easy for him but that's what he considers love. (Maybe he's incapable of loving back) He was resigned to stay in the relationship because it was effortless on his part but it made him lonely and sad therefore he wasn't upset when it ended. The "sadness" that he was addicted to was the fact that he could do whatever he wanted and still be in complete control of her.
Now he can't deal with the fact that she actually moved on. She realizes what happened. He screwed her over, made her believe it was her own doing. Why would she want him in her life anymore?
He doesn't get it. The dude is more than likely narcissistic.
@lolhahaha The male is a malignant Narcissist. He blames her for everything that is wrong in the relationship rather than be an adult and accepting his responsibility in the toxic relationship. She, the victim, feels screwed over and the only way that she can find peace is to "cut him off", in other words, going "no contact". He\'s angry because he\'s lost his ability to control her in any way. He\'s so bad that she has to send people to retrieve her belongings because she knows he\'ll try to lure her back in and nothing is ever going to...
@lolhahaha The male is a malignant Narcissist. He blames her for everything that is wrong in the relationship rather than be an adult and accepting his responsibility in the toxic relationship. She, the victim, feels screwed over and the only way that she can find peace is to "cut him off", in other words, going "no contact". He\'s angry because he\'s lost his ability to control her in any way. He\'s so bad that she has to send people to retrieve her belongings because she knows he\'ll try to lure her back in and nothing is ever going to change. She\'s accepted that he will never change, he wasn\'t the person that he portrayed himself to be and she has no choice but to move on.
@lolhahaha Omg!!!! you totally nailed it. Definitely a narcissist.
@lolhahaha Omg!!!! you totally nailed it. Definitely a narcissist.