Samson

I went and read some about the story of Samson and Delilah, and I think it gave me more insight into this song.

According to the biblical story, Samson was given extraordinary physical strength through God. First he fell in love with a woman named Timnah, a Philistine, and weds her-- at the wedding reception, he promises a group of Philistines that he will provide them with thirty sets of clothes if they can solve a riddle. They are unable to solve it, but they implore Timnah to get the answer from him-- she does, and tells them, and Samson becomes furious because he doesn't have clothing to give to them.

He leaves town and kills thirty other men in a nearby village, steals their clothing, but when he returns, Timnah is now married to a friend of his. Enraged, he ultimately ends up killing a thousand of the Philistines.

When he goes to Gaza, Samson meets and falls in love with Delilah. The Philistines convince her to get him to tell her the source of his power-- he tells her it's his hair (however, it was not really in his hair, but because he had already broken two laws of the Nazarite. this was enough for God to take his power away from him).

Delilah cuts off all of Samson's hair, and then he is captured by the Philistines, who gouge out his eyeballs. However, the way he dies is by pulling down the two central pillars in a temple.

This seems to be referred to in the song with the lines "Oh, we couldn't bring the columns down / Yeah, we couldn't destroy a single one."

I think the narrator of this song-- Delilah-- is lamenting about what could have been. Because she secretly did love Samson. All of the stories say that Samson loved Delilah, and make no mention of her returning the feelings. The lyric "I loved you first" seems to imply that not only did she love him back, but she loved him before he even loved her.

As I see it, this song is about how she imagined a different ending for their tragic romance. In this version, after she cuts his hair, he just eats a piece of bread, tells her it's okay, it's all right, nothing has changed. They make love and get a happy ending.

And in her version, the Bible doesn't even mention them because what she did didn't matter-- he didn't change history, and they just loved each other, quietly.

This is actually a twist to the story of Samson and Delilah in the book of Judges in the Bible. Samson's hair was the source of his superhuman strength. When he came to be with Delilah, she cut off his hair and took away his strength. The important element to draw from this is the idea that to be with Delilah, Samson gave up his strength, his wildness, his independence. In essence, she tamed him, checked his power. That is a metaphor of what happens when a man falls in love with a woman: In order for a man to be with a woman, he must be tamed, his independence and thus his strength is checked by the commitment of a monogamous relationship. It's a tale as old as time, beauty tames the beast, Delilah cuts Samson's hair, women civilize the men.

In the actual story, Samson used to terrorize his enemies, the Philistines. Samson falls in love with a Philistine woman against God's council. When his enemies realize this, they blackmail Delilah into cutting Samson's hair while he was asleep by threatening to kill her family. Samson wakes up angry. But as he is powerless now, his enemies take him away from Delilah, blind him, and chain him to the two main pillars of their temple to mock him. But his hair grows back and he slowly regains his superhuman strength without his enemies realizing it. Long story short, he is finally able to get back at his enemies by breaking down the pillars temple during a celebration, bringing down the roof, effectively killing himself along with is enemies.

But the twist in this song is Delilah seems to have worked on her own when she cuts Samson's hair. When she does, Samson doesn't wake up angry. In fact he's pleased. Delilah says, "And he told me that I'd done alright". The tamed Samson eats his Wonder bread, like a normal civil man, and goes back to bed, like a normal civil man. No pillars were broken down, no temple came tumbling down. Only "old light" from the stars. No legend was created, no history changed, no stories told in the Bible or anywhere. He has given up his strength, his wildness, his independence, his dominance over his enemies for love.

But the catch that isn't said explicitly in the song (but strongly implied) is that by cutting his hair and taming him Delilah saves his life.

I think this song really is about Regina finding a man who was willing to be weak and open to her. After all, Sampson knew all his strength came from his hair. The image of him loving a woman so much that he let her cut his hair is powerful because he would be so vunerable. I think many women wish that men would more often let down their machismo guards and reveal themselves. Regina may still be looking for a Sampson who will let her cut his hair...

"And history books forgot about us and the bible didnt mention us" I think she's trying to tell that the history books and the bible didnt mention their love.. it didnt explain their love and their lives.. i know the story of sampson and delilah since i was a little girl.. but what i really know and what history really cared to tell was the fact that delilah deceived sampson.. and this song brings a new and fresh conception of the story.. in this song what really matters is their love... sampson dindt care to be deceived because of his mad love, and delilah.. well maybe she was following the orders of her people..and then in the middle of it she falls in love too..

No, these are all wrong! I read an interview about it. This song is about a man named Samson who has cancer, so when she says "Your hair was long when we first met", she means that she met him before he had cancer and then he lost his hair. She writes "He ate a slice of Wonderbread" because that's what cancer patients are often told to eat. When she sings "And the Bible didn't mention us/ Not even once" it's because they went through so much together and the bible didn't even talk about them. It's NOT about the Sampson and Deliah story in the bible. Oh and when she sings "I loved you first", I think it's because cancer "loved" Samson and took him from her.

I love Regina because she writes little stories, like short fiction, instead of just writing all about her own life and it is very refreshing. She has said herself that that's how she writes all of her songs, like stories, so she can take on any point of view... Anyway I think this definitely has to do with Samson, but not Delilah. I think it's like Regina taking the point of view of a woman who came before Delilah, who truly loved Samson instead of just wanting to cut off his hair so he would lose his strength. But Samson loved her and trusted her enough to let himself be vulnerable with her. He let her cut off his hair. But their love ended for whatever reason, and she is reflecting on how beautiful it was even though no one will ever know about it because no one ever mentioned it. At least that's how I look at it...it's a gorgeous song. Also I think "Your hair was long when we first met" sort of meant that he had his guard up, and that he didn't want to let her in. I don't think she regretted cutting his hair at all, I mean it says, "And he told me that I had done alright and kissed me 'til the morning light" so I think they were happy. But then Delilah came along and that was the story that everyone heard about. No matter how you look at it, bottom line, very pretty song. And a great way to open up her album Songs.

To go on a different path, I think this song is about her own "Samson" who had cancer. The hair resembles the disease because cancer weakens the body and immune system (like in the bibles story, he becomes weak without his hair). Samson in her life was forgotten by the history books and not mentioned in the bible, like Regina says. To her he was very important but not so important to the rest of the world so he was not worth mentioning in those kind of important texts. "Oh, we couldn't bring the columns down Yeah, we couldn't destroy a single one" Those lines tells me they could not fight the cancer and he did die. I found that this thought fit the song in all aspects.

I agree with those who think it's about a lover dying of cancer. The only reason Samson and the bible are mentioned is because Samson got his strength from his hair, and when her friend, who was on chemo, lost his hair, he lost his strength too (from the illness and from the chemo treatments). She says "the bible didn't mention us" because in her eyes, their story was epic and tragic and deserved to be remembered. "The history books" forgot about him, just another victim of cancer, but Regina never did, and she never will. He is her most bittersweet memory (sweetest downfall). When she says she loved him first, she doesn't mean she loved him before some other girl came along. She means she loved him before she loved anyone else. He was the first.

For some reason, I don't think this song is very linear. For me it seems to jump perspectives a lot - like, I can't say for sure "This is from the perspective of the woman who first loved Samso", because to me, the repeated "You are my sweetest downfall" sounds like something Samson would be saying. I think this song does a really good job of showing how with Delilah, when his hair is cut (Second verse), he's very disconnected - He's just lost his source of power, and he goes and eats some bread, and goes to sleep, but with this other woman, he "Kisses her till the morning light" - how Samson really had that deep emotional connection with this other woman.

This reminds me of Deliah and Samson in the bible. It's like Deliah [excuse me if I spelled her name wrong] was trying to tell someone her view of their relationship. Samson had long hair and she cut it and was a notorious slut/whore in the bible. But according to this song, they really loved each other. She's trying to put everything that is right back together while everyone else is twisting them around.