Lyric discussion by steevo 

Cover art for #41 lyrics by Dave Matthews Band

This song means so much to me. I think its about going through a breakup after being dumped. He feels alone, and has to only rely on himself to get out of the funk that he finds himself in, and he feels lonely without her. He is so frustrated and can't forget all the good memories that he will never come back to reality. The memory of what he had with her will always haunt him, and he wants to get back together with his ex. He is willing to do whatever it takes to get back together because she is the only one that he will ever want, but for some reason, she doesn't recognize his unconditional love and deep care that he has for her. He still has hope that things can get better, but he must face the fact that its all in the past. In the Radio City performance of this song, you can hear the frustration in Dave's voice. Every time I hear this it makes feel the pain from my own experiences. Great Song- one of his best.