Lyric discussion by bluestruck 

Cover art for You Can Love Her lyrics by Angelfish

I like your meaning, thepuppydog26, but here's what I think it may be:

I think it's basicly saying, "You can't change who she is, but you can love her for who she is", and it's also saying "There's nothing you can do about who she is, and if you really love her, you'll understand that"