The song lyrics were written by the band Van Halen, as they were asked to write a song for the 1979 movie "Over the Edge" starring Matt Dillon. The movie (and the lyrics, although more obliquely) are about bored, rebellious youth with nothing better to do than get into trouble. If you see the movie, these lyrics will make more sense. It's a great movie if you grew up in the 70s/80s you'll definitely remember some of these characters from your own life. Fun fact, after writing the song, Van Halen decided not to let the movie use it.
Cherish is the word I use to describe
All the feeling that I have hiding here for you inside
You don't know how many times I've wished that I had told you
You don't know how many times I've wished that I could hold you
You don't know how many times I've wished that I could
Mold you into someone who could
Cherish me as much as I cherish you
Perish is the word that more than applies
To the hope in my heart each time I realize
That I am not gonna be the one to share your dreams
That I am not gonna be the one to share your schemes
That I am not gonna be the one to share
What seems to be the life that you could
Cherish as much as I do yours
Oh, I'm beginning to think that man has never found
The words that could make you want me
That have the right amount of letters, just the right sound
That could make you hear, make you see
That you are drivin' me out of my mind
Oh, I could say I need you but then you'd realize
That I want you just like a thousand other guys
Who'd say they loved you With all the rest of their lies
When all they wanted was to touch your face, your hands
And gaze into your eyes
Cherish is the word I use to describe
All the feeling that I have hiding here for you inside
You don't know how many times I've wished that I had told you
You don't know how many times I've wished that I could hold you
You don't know how many times I've wished that I could
Mold you into someone who could
Cherish me as much as I cherish you
And I do cherish you
And I do cherish you
Cherish is the word
All the feeling that I have hiding here for you inside
You don't know how many times I've wished that I had told you
You don't know how many times I've wished that I could hold you
You don't know how many times I've wished that I could
Mold you into someone who could
Cherish me as much as I cherish you
Perish is the word that more than applies
To the hope in my heart each time I realize
That I am not gonna be the one to share your dreams
That I am not gonna be the one to share your schemes
That I am not gonna be the one to share
What seems to be the life that you could
Cherish as much as I do yours
Oh, I'm beginning to think that man has never found
The words that could make you want me
That have the right amount of letters, just the right sound
That could make you hear, make you see
That you are drivin' me out of my mind
Oh, I could say I need you but then you'd realize
That I want you just like a thousand other guys
Who'd say they loved you With all the rest of their lies
When all they wanted was to touch your face, your hands
And gaze into your eyes
Cherish is the word I use to describe
All the feeling that I have hiding here for you inside
You don't know how many times I've wished that I had told you
You don't know how many times I've wished that I could hold you
You don't know how many times I've wished that I could
Mold you into someone who could
Cherish me as much as I cherish you
And I do cherish you
And I do cherish you
Cherish is the word
Lyrics submitted by democracys
Cherish Lyrics as written by Terry Kirkman
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
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@mentally Yes... and just seeing the lyrics in print doesn't show the great vocal harmony. I especially like the last verse, where someone's singing a descending G scale of just the sort that you'd expect to be played on tubular bells. (Actually, the bell motif goes clear through it--notice the backing vocals "bong bong" on F and C at the very start.)
@mentally Yes... and just seeing the lyrics in print doesn't show the great vocal harmony. I especially like the last verse, where someone's singing a descending G scale of just the sort that you'd expect to be played on tubular bells. (Actually, the bell motif goes clear through it--notice the backing vocals "bong bong" on F and C at the very start.)
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Who'd say they loved you with all the rest of their lies
was actually:
Who say they'd love you for the rest of their lives
not sure which is correct
I woke up yesterday with this song in my head. Funny... This has been happening a lot lately. Or maybe I'm just more aware...
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Or... it could be that he's hiding his true feelings for the girl... because he loves her on a deeper level. She wouldn't understand ... because she's not there yet. She doesn't believe that she's worthy of a love like this... Or even if it's "real." Her beliefs about love and her experiences have been more shallow, or conditional.
i once loved a girl and so i thought she loved me too
but it was only in my mind she cared for me deeply but love? -- not in the way i loved her
i went thru life trying to make her love me i saw my love for her as one that no other man could duplicate.
but she didn't love me in the same way i loved (and truly cherished) her
twelve years have come twelve years have gone no other man has loved and cherished her as i
she's still single i'm still single too.
we both go through life as two people single.
nothing's changed i cherish her she cherishes me
all life long still the same
cherish is the word.
I have always found this song to be heartbreaking yet beautiful. He loves her and it seems he has for sometime. He never told her and she most likely had no clue how he felt or still does. The word cherish is a beautiful descriptor in the case of this love song. He cherishes not only her but he cherishes the though that she may one day cherish him.