I came here with a broken heart that no one else could see
I drew a smile on my face to paper over me
But wounds heal when tears dry and cracks, they don't show
So don't be so hard on yourself, no

Let's go back to simplicity
I feel like I've been missin' me
Was not who I'm supposed to be
I felt this darkness over me
We all get there eventually
I never knew where I belonged
But I was right and you were wrong
Been tellin' myself all along

Don't be so hard on yourself, no
Learn to forgive, learn to let go
Everyone trips, everyone falls
So don't be so hard on yourself, no
'Cause I'm just tired of marchin' on my own
Kind of frail, I feel it in my bones
Won't let my heart, my heart turn into stone
So don't be so hard on yourself, no

I'm standin' on top of the world, right where I wanna be
So how can this dark cloud keep raining over me?
But hearts break and hell's a place that everyone knows
So don't be so hard on yourself, no

Let's go back to simplicity
I feel like I've been missin' me
Was not who I'm supposed to be
I felt this darkness over me
We all get there eventually
I never knew where I belonged
But I was right and you were wrong
Been tellin' myself all along

Don't be so hard on yourself, no
Learn to forgive, learn to let go
Everyone trips, everyone falls
So don't be so hard on yourself, no
'Cause I'm just tired of marchin' on my own
Kind of frail, I feel it in my bones
Won't let my heart, my heart turn into stone
So don't be so hard on yourself, no

Oh, I
I learned to wave goodbye
How not to see my life
Through someone else's eyes
It's not an easy road
But now I'm not alone
So I, I won't be so hard on myself no more

Don't be so hard on yourself, no
Learn to forgive, learn to let go
Everyone trips, everyone falls
So don't be so hard on yourself, no
'Cause I'm just tired of marchin' on my own
Kind of frail, I feel it in my bones
Won't let my heart, my heart turn into stone
So don't be so hard on yourself, no

'Cause I'm just tired of marchin' on my own
Kind of frail, I feel it in my bones
Won't let my heart, my heart turn into stone
So don't be so hard on yourself, no


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Don't Be So Hard On Yourself Lyrics as written by Peter Norman Cullen Kelleher Thomas Andrew Searle Barnes

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    General Comment

    This song was written by Glynne, when she was as she described "the darkest place" in her life. The song is about learning to have a little faith, and a lot of self love. The singer is explaining that she had a lot of negativity following her wherever she went, and often was too harsh on herself, being self critical, but finally had enough and broke free from that cycle of thought. The song is incredibly empowering, and uplifting, telling its listeners to open their hearts a little more and not to bring themselves down whenever life crashes in to a halt.

    sailorfruiton August 24, 2016   Link
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    Jess Glynn is super underrated and has stunning talent

    CaramelMusicon May 08, 2021   Link
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    Song Meaning

    This is a very powerful song with a powerful message. It’s about giving ourselves grace and learning to be kind to ourselves.‘Let’s go back to simplicity’ Jess realises that we shouldn’t complicate our lives. Living simply and not being so hard on ourselves is important if we want to thrive. ‘Everyone trips, everyone falls’ means that no one is perfect and we all make mistakes, so don’t be so hard on yourself.

    hopeinJesuson February 07, 2022   Link

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