The song lyrics were written by the band Van Halen, as they were asked to write a song for the 1979 movie "Over the Edge" starring Matt Dillon. The movie (and the lyrics, although more obliquely) are about bored, rebellious youth with nothing better to do than get into trouble. If you see the movie, these lyrics will make more sense. It's a great movie if you grew up in the 70s/80s you'll definitely remember some of these characters from your own life. Fun fact, after writing the song, Van Halen decided not to let the movie use it.
He cloaks his tears, disguises his fears, the man he was has disappeared
He sleeps alone, his restless mind is overgrown, some use to call him father
Seven years since he held his son, time is the cruelest thing
But his ex-wife has found her new life, now he drinks away his future longing for a broken pass
But he knows the only one to blame is him
We say too much, we don't listen
Is this all we are?
We drink too much, we don't do enough
Until it's too late
She is too polite and out of sight, they walk all over her
She prays all night, her hands pressed so tight, comfort in a blind faith
It's been five years since anyone touched her, touched her with her consent
She's too scared to live her life
She's too scared to make mistakes she'd probably regret so she just hides
But the only person she's hiding from is her
We say too much, we don't listen
Is this is all we are?
We drink too much, we don't do enough
Is this all we are?
Is this all we are?
Is this all we are?
Is this all we are?
Is this all we are?
He sleeps alone, his restless mind is overgrown, some use to call him father
Seven years since he held his son, time is the cruelest thing
But his ex-wife has found her new life, now he drinks away his future longing for a broken pass
But he knows the only one to blame is him
We say too much, we don't listen
Is this all we are?
We drink too much, we don't do enough
Until it's too late
She is too polite and out of sight, they walk all over her
She prays all night, her hands pressed so tight, comfort in a blind faith
It's been five years since anyone touched her, touched her with her consent
She's too scared to live her life
She's too scared to make mistakes she'd probably regret so she just hides
But the only person she's hiding from is her
We say too much, we don't listen
Is this is all we are?
We drink too much, we don't do enough
Is this all we are?
Is this all we are?
Is this all we are?
Is this all we are?
Is this all we are?
Lyrics submitted by streggle
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