Ode to Billy Joe

This song causes the listener to visualize the story and fill in the details about their relationship and what is thrown off the bridge. And everyone writes in their own story - which is great!

But I think the point of the song is in nature of the conversation over dinner. The news devastates the narrator (she can't eat) while the family goes on eating and talking. Everyone is so wrapped up in their own lives.

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Quite an inventive interpretation! However, it is way too much of a stretch. As the other reply pointed out, it does not fit with the other lyrics. For another example, the line referring to the "frog down my dress", seems like exactly what a boy might to do to tease a girl, not anther boy. Another boy would likely not be repulsed by the frog, like a girl usually would be.

The much more likely story, is some sort of love affair between the narrator ( WHO IS FEMALE!), and Billy Joe. For some reason they feel compelled to keep the relationship a secret. That is the great mystery, along with why he killed himself. The abortion theory, makes some sense. However, why did they keep the relationship such a secret? Was he so much of an outcast ( wrong side of the tracks syndrome), that she could not have an open friendship? Was he just depressed like many teenagers?

what were they throwing off the bridge?!?

THE MUSIC ALSO PLAYS AN IMPORTANT ROLE INT EH SONG, ESPECIALLY WHEN THE STRINGS GIVR A LONG DESCENDING SCALE, AT THE END, INDICATING THAT THE FLOWERS THAT WERE PICKED UP BY THE NARRATOR AT CHAKTAW RIDGE, WERE THROWN INTO THE RIVER OFF THE TALLAHETTCHIE BRIDGE, ENDING UP IN THE WATER.

I believe Billy Joe and her daughter were lovers who got pregnant. They used a coat hanger or something to abort the baby, or found someone local who would abort it. They were on the bridge throwing the baby in to the water, probably wrapped in a blanket. Billy Joe couldn't forgive himself for what he had done and killed himself. The girl is having a hard time with it too, as well as dealing with Billy Joe killing himself, so that she can't eat. The mother's words in the song and the things she is talking about show that she is totally unaware of what went on between her daughter and Billy Joe.

In my opinion, the song intentionally leaves us wondering what they threw off the bridge and why did Billy Joe kill himself because those things are not the focus. I think what is meant to stand out is how poorly we handle tragedy. The contrast between the news that this young man they all knew and were friends with killed himself and their polite dinner table manners speaks volumes about how we handle tragic news...we don't! We hear news that shakes us to the core and we cling to whats safe and familiar. None of us know how to handle the shock and hurt of tragedy. A year later her dad dies and tragedy strikes close to home and it affects them all but they still don't really know how to process it. We all can find ourselves somewhere in those lyrics because none of us really handles these things well. Anyway the song is hauntingly captivating and perfect for what it is and this is just my thoughts on what it means. As far as the comment about the narrator being a guy its really a stretch since Bobbie Gentry is a female and wrote the song and sings it and Brother Taylor said he saw a "girl" who looked a lot like her.

The song is full of non-specific gender wording, and the song is sung by a woman, so naturally we assume the narrator is a woman. The narrator is actually a young man and he and his brother are working in the field together. The mom doesn’t have a daughter to help her, so she cooks all morning long to have dinner ready. A girl would not have to be told to wipe her feet. Her son, the narrator, and Billy Joe are lovers.

Since the report is that he jumped off the bridge, everyone assumes that Billy Joe committed suicide. The Dad’s comment “never had a lick of sense” indicates he thinks the reason for Billy Joe’s suicide was stupid. Mother’s comment “it was a shame about Billy Joe, anyhow” sounds like she too thinks the problem could have been solved without resorting to suicide. Her words are filled with pity.

“Seems like nothing ever comes to no good on Choctaw Ridge.” This is where the saw mill is located, and at night it is where there is drinking, gambling, prostitution, etc. This is the reason no one is dramatically upset about the situation, nor speculating why Billy Joe would commit suicide. He could’ve had a gambling debt he couldn’t pay, or was fearful because he found himself in a situation he couldn’t get out of without horrible consequences. The parent’s feel bad but at the same time, they’re thinking “it’s his own stupid fault…”

Growing up as friends, the narrator’s brother and Tom were probably closer in age, as were the narrator and Billy Joe. It appears that the narrator’s brother is fondly recollecting a time from the past, when they all went to the picture show and Billy Joe put a frog down the narrator’s back (not down her dress or her blouse). Then he makes a comment about the narrator talking to Billy Joe at church last Sunday night. The brother goes on to say that he just saw Billy Joe at the saw mill yesterday and everything seemed fine. So Billy Joe committing suicide doesn’t seem right or make sense. On the surface the brother’s words seem lighthearted but in fact they are a cryptic message to the narrator that he has known about their relationship for awhile. He’s been spying on them.

The mother’s term of endearment “child” can be used toward a boy or a girl. Since the narrator is a boy, the mother doesn’t make the connection that the news of the suicide and her brother’s words have affected him profoundly.

Yesterday, the narrator went to see Billy Joe at the saw mill and the brother secretly followed and saw them in a compromising position. This was the final straw, so he returns to Choctaw Ridge that evening to find Billy Joe. He then kills Billy Joe by pushing him off the bridge and he breaks his neck in the fall.

The narrator’s brother isn’t the only one in the know. Yesterday, Brother Taylor saw the narrator and Billy Joe coming from the saw mill on Choctaw Ridge after their tryst. He continued to observe them in secret while they were on the bridge. This was a ritual for the lovers, spending time together throwing flowers into the muddy waters. Since he saw them from behind, he couldn’t see what they were throwing into the river, only the motion of them doing it.

Brother Taylor is the one who brings the news about Billy Joe’s suicide. But he is also warning the narrator that he knows about the affair. If he recognized Billy Joe on Choctaw Ridge, he would have recognized the narrator as well. Instead, Brother Taylor makes reference to a girl who resembles the narrator a lot. Once the brother hears this news about Brother Taylor and his wanting to come to dinner, he gets nervous about whether Brother Taylor knows that he killed Billy Joe.

A year later, everyone still thinks Billy Joe committed suicide. The brother got away with it, but he made the choice to marry and leave his hometown. The father knows what happened, so he sells a good portion of his land to give his son money to start over in a new town. The guilt and stress of it all weakens the dad and he succumbs to the viral infection. He’s been dead for about 2 months now.

The mother also knows what happened and she is wracked with guilt and hatred toward her son, the narrator, because it is all his fault that their family has fallen apart.

The narrator cannot bring himself to leave his hometown because to do so would be to abandon his love. Instead he spends a lot of time on Choctaw Ridge picking flowers and dropping them into the muddy waters as a memorial to Billy Joe. Every day he lives with the knowledge that his love is what killed Billy Joe.