This is a hauntingly beautiful song about introspection, specifically about looking back at a relationship that started bad and ended so poorly, that the narrator wants to go back to the very beginning and tell himself to not even travel down that road. I believe that the relationship started poorly because of the lines:
"Take me back to the night we met:When the night was full of terrors: And your eyes were filled with tears: When you had not touched me yet"
So, the first night was not a great start, but the narrator pursued the relationship and eventually both overcame the rough start to fall in love with each other:
"I had all and then most of you"
Like many relationships that turn sour, it was not a quick decline, but a gradual one where the narrator and their partner fall out of love and gradually grow apart
"Some and now none of you"
Losing someone who was once everything in your world, who you could confide in, tell your secrets to, share all the most intimate parts of your life, to being strangers with that person is probably one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. So Painful, the narrator wants to go back in time and tell himself to not even pursue the relationship.
This was the perfect song for "13 Reasons Why"
Baby I know you lovin', I'm hot just like an oven
And baby, I can't hold it much longer
It's getting stronger and stronger
And when I get that feeling
I want sexual healing, sexual healing, baby
Makes me feel so fine helps to relieve my mind
Sexual healing baby, is good for me
Sexual healing is something that's good for me
Whenever blue tear drops are falling
And my emotional stability is leaving me
Honey, I know there is one thing I can do
I can get on the telephone I can call you up baby
'Cause honey I know you'll be there to relieve me
'Cause love you give me will free me
If you don't know the things you're dealing
I can tell you, darling, that it's sexual healing
Get up, get up, get up, get up, let's make love tonight
Wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up, 'cause you do it right
Baby I got sick this morning
A storming inside of me
Baby I think I'm capsizing
The waves are rising and rising
When I get that feeling, I want sexual healing
Sexual healing baby is good for me
Makes me feel so fine, it's such a rush
Helps to relieve the mind, and it's good for us
Sexual healing, baby, is good for me
Sexual healing is something that's good for me
And it's good for me and it's good to me, my baby
Just grab a hold juts take control
Of my body and mind soon we'll be making it
Honey, oh we're feeling fine
You're my medicine open up and let me in
Darling, you're so great, I can't wait for you to operate
I can't wait for you to operate
When I get that feeling, I want sexual healing
When I get that feeling, I want sexual healing
Please don't procrastinate, I want you to trust me
And baby, I can't hold it much longer
It's getting stronger and stronger
And when I get that feeling
I want sexual healing, sexual healing, baby
Makes me feel so fine helps to relieve my mind
Sexual healing baby, is good for me
Sexual healing is something that's good for me
Whenever blue tear drops are falling
And my emotional stability is leaving me
Honey, I know there is one thing I can do
I can get on the telephone I can call you up baby
'Cause honey I know you'll be there to relieve me
'Cause love you give me will free me
If you don't know the things you're dealing
I can tell you, darling, that it's sexual healing
Get up, get up, get up, get up, let's make love tonight
Wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up, 'cause you do it right
Baby I got sick this morning
A storming inside of me
Baby I think I'm capsizing
The waves are rising and rising
When I get that feeling, I want sexual healing
Sexual healing baby is good for me
Makes me feel so fine, it's such a rush
Helps to relieve the mind, and it's good for us
Sexual healing, baby, is good for me
Sexual healing is something that's good for me
And it's good for me and it's good to me, my baby
Just grab a hold juts take control
Of my body and mind soon we'll be making it
Honey, oh we're feeling fine
You're my medicine open up and let me in
Darling, you're so great, I can't wait for you to operate
I can't wait for you to operate
When I get that feeling, I want sexual healing
When I get that feeling, I want sexual healing
Please don't procrastinate, I want you to trust me
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Sexual Healing Lyrics as written by Marvin Gaye David Ritz
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