There's a stain on my notebook
Where your coffee cup was
And there's ash in the pages
Now I've got myself lost
I was writing to tell you
That my feelings tonight
Are a stain on my notebook
That rings your goodbye
With the way that you left me
I can hardly contain
The hurt and the anger
And the joy of the pain
Now knowing I am single
They'll be fire in my eyes
And a stain on my notebook
For a new love tonight
From the lips without passion
To the lips with a kiss
There's nothing of your love
That I'll ever miss
The stain on my notebook
Remain all that's left
Of the memory of late nights
And coffee in bed
Now she's gone
And I'm back on the beat
A stain on my notebook
Says nothing to me
Now she's gone
And I'm out with a friend
With lips full of passion
And coffee in bed


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  • +4
    Song Meaning

    The song is about a memory, but it's mostly about killing a memory. He's denying that this girl ever meant anything to him. She's not even given a name, she's "black coffee in bed". He's claiming that all she left behind is a coffee stain. We know it's a lie but it's a lie he's trying to sell himself. He even claims to be on to the next girl but we know he's not. He's constantly remembering something, a perspective-changing experience of intimacy, he's constantly trying to forget.

    matt103619on May 14, 2015   Link
  • +3
    General Comment

    Squeeze founding member and guitarist Chris Difford writes their song lyrics. Says Chris: "This lyric was inspired by my picking up my notebook one day and seeing a coffee stain on it, which inspired the first line. It was a very vivid image for me and inspired this song of loss and regret."

    Erayman64on February 15, 2015   Link
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    Love this song :] My interpretation of it is that he has lost his love and is trying to replace her, but the 'stain on his note book' reminds him of her. Even though he says it means nothing to him, he is trying to cover up his true feelings and get on with his life. Others probabaly have a different opinion though.

    butterflykiss84on August 26, 2002   Link
  • +2
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    I'm so glad I found this page. I always had a hunch that that's what song meant in general. But I'm a little confused about the specifics of some lines - and would love to get your opinioins.

    "From the lips without passion To the lips with a kiss there's nothing in your love that I'll ever miss"

    Is this more of him just pretending his new lover ("lips with a kiss") is warmer/better than the girl he's singing to ? ("lips without passion")?

    "i was writing to tell you that my feeling's tonight are a stain on my notebook that rings your goodbye"

    I'm embarrassed to say I'm not quite sure what "rings your goodbye" means here? Is this more "denial"? like I was opening up the same notebook where I found your stain in, originally just opening it up to write a new letter to tell you I'm over you...but found the stain? Or basically he's saying, "all you are is a stain"? nothing more? I guess the juxtaposition of the 2 lines together is what's confusing..or a bit subtle to get

    lastly "now knowing I am single they'll be fire in my eyes and a stain on my notebook for a new love tonight"

    just as simple as it sounds? he and his new lover will make their own stain? more attempting to forget - ?

    roy1020841on April 11, 2016   Link
  • +1
    Song Meaning

    I've always thought that "black coffee" was also a winking reference to the lost love's appearance, a la "brown sugar." The woman in the video was a blonde, but that was probably the director's call, not the songwriter's, so...

    villekullaon May 27, 2011   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    Working as a musician when this song was popular, it was understood to mean one thing, which is evident in the scene of a beautiful Black woman. Marriage ruined and Black coffee in bed. Needing to mask the meaning for a G rating and a time that was far less 'PC'.

    richardi9aon August 01, 2016   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    Near perfect lyric ... "With the way that you left me I can hardly contain The hurt and the anger And the joy of the pain."

    Chi-Chiefon November 02, 2021   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    Yeah i pretty much agree with butterfly kiss that everything he sees reminds him of his ex.

    kfe2on February 03, 2006   Link
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    I concur with butterfly too. I love this song.

    Celtic_FCon August 25, 2006   Link
  • -3
    General Comment

    Coffee in bed clearly sounds like "caught me in bed" at times, because this is the real meaning, he's just hiding the true meaning with words that rhyme.

    Back on the beat is supposed to be "back on the beach" (even though he doesn't actually use the word beach). The beach is where he has to go to be reborn/start over. The water breaking on the shore is a metaphor for his next mother's water breaking and the ocean is where all the emotion/energy/life stems from (can't have life on a planet without water).

    realshitfaceon May 03, 2016   Link

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