She says in a interview: "The song's sort of about being – I was assaulted and I had a really hard time engaging in any types of relationship with men, because I was just so terrified of men for a while." (http://www.spin.com/#articles/grimes-interview-2012-big-year) So the fact that the song is called "Oblivion" is obviously her commenting and reflecting on herself concerning this experience when it initially happened. The juxtaposition of light upbeat sound and heavy meaning (much like "Pumped up Kicks - Foster the People) almost seems like a cartharsis. With this in mind the lyrics fall together quite well to tell the story of what this incident has done to her.
"I never walk about, After dark, It's my point of view, That someone could break your neck Coming up behind you always coming and you never have a clue" It's funny the way she words this, rather than focusing on why it's her point of view (which she most likely doesn't want to do) she's giving a sort example to follow... words of warning to others. "And now I look behind all the time, I will wait forever, Always looking straight, Thinking counting all the hours you wait" She's always expecting her attacker to come back, now than it's happened, she'll be prepared next time, because now she'll always be alert. Looking straight ahead as to not give in to her fear, walking straight to the goal, rather than meandering. She's also wonders how long he must have been waiting there for her... "See you on a dark night" poetically this lyric makes the song like a twisted romance... between her and her attacker... she will always see him on a dark night, in her head.
I'd be inclined to agree that its a song about a girl walking alone at night/ physical insecurity but the coming off drugs thing also rings true.
To be honest, I'm not bothered that much what its about but as a 40-something year old father of kids I have to say that both myself and my wife havent heard a tune this fresh, catchy and different in a long, long time. This kids has talent, I hope she goes a long way.
For those who are interested in an old boys ramblings there are shades of early Depeche Mode and Human League in this song. Lyrically its structured (I'll be shot for this, I know) very like 'I Think We're Alone Now' by Tiffany. And neither of those comments detract from this song, incidentally.
I Think We're Alone now is originally by Tommy James and the Shonells
I Think We're Alone now is originally by Tommy James and the Shonells
It's not "ANOTHER walk about after dark"
Should be "I NEVER walk about after dark, it's my point of view"
It's not "another PLAY I WOULD ACT"
Should be "another CLUE I WOULD ASK"
It's not "NOW THE EMPATHY EMPOWERS ME"
Should be "ITS GONNA BE TOUGH FOR ME"
Based on repeated listening to live versions, it's actually:
Based on repeated listening to live versions, it's actually:
"And now the walk about after dark" "And now it's good to be tough on me"
"And now the walk about after dark" "And now it's good to be tough on me"
Like raspy says, she stated in an interview that she was assaulted, and this song was kind of her way of coping with the situation. She said she spent years paranoid and frightened, and finally opted to make a song that kind of subverts her assault -- it kind of fingers the line of sounding like SHE'S the one stalking someone at night and also being stalked.
The first half of the song is very narrative -- walking around at night, musing about how she can just walk up to the man and snap his neck. Sort of a reversal of power. But then, she talks about how -she- fearfully walks, staring straight ahead, fighting the urge to glance behind her, etc. However, this is still sung in sort of an ambiguous way, like she's commenting on the man she follows glancing at her, and she's staring straight ahead, focused on him. Finally, the "See you on a dark night" is pretty literal but still ambiguous, both the statement of the stalker and the stalked -- they know they'll see each other on a dark night. It's both helpless and powerful, to fit both roles.
The second half is when it seems to turn to self-reflection and her fear of men. She mentions her aloneness and how it's hard to have a relationship with a man again, she can't find someone to hold her hand. But, she doesn't enjoy her fear, and she really just wants someone to give her the kick she needs to grow out of it; to look into her eyes and tell her everything is okay ("la la la la la~")
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The music in the middle of this song sounds like something from The Sims 2, which is awesome.
Ok I would just like to say to the one and only hater on here, I think that its sad that you take them as a "joke". Is it just because she has a weird new sound to her? Because I personally think that her just being a little different and strange makes her set herself apart from everything else that's been sounding the same these days. Grimes is a very talented, innovated band. Just saw them live at Pitchfork too... absolutely amazing.
I couldn't agree more! really amazing music
I couldn't agree more! really amazing music
I always thought this song was being a woman walking alone at night when it's dark and wondering about if you're going to get raped or being murdered when you're alone.
There is a slight irony in that the title is 'oblivion' [being unaware of the surroundings], and yet the content of the song obsesses over a dark fate which could await. This suggests to me that whilst the speaker is perceived as 'oblivious', she is in fact inwardly conscious of the slightest danger which could occur. I feel this is reflected in the music by the contrast between the light-hearted and sugary sweet vocals at the beginning of the sing, and the sinister riff which enters in the final quarter which dominates at the very end, perhaps indicating something bad did happen.
I think you got 'Oblivion' confused with 'Oblivious'.
I think you got 'Oblivion' confused with 'Oblivious'.
...or perhaps the riff reflects her insecurities, and the sweet 'la la la' which is sung over the top is the facade of not caring.
This song screams "Dominate me!" . Its about submissive girl who want a dominant partner!
"I never walk about, after dark, It's my point of view, Someone could break your neck, Coming up behind you always coming and you'd never have a clue" someone coming up behind means a desire for a dominant figure to take control unexpectedly.
"And now they look behind, all the time, I will wait forever, always looking straight, Thinking, counting, all the hours you wait" The shift to the third person ("they") means that are more than one person waiting for a chance to dominate her, while she is eagerly anticipating their arrival.
"See you on a dark night" This line continues to convey a longing for encounters with a dominant partner during nighttime, reinforcing the desire for a specific kind of intimate experience.
"And now another clue, I would ask, If you could help me out, It's hard to understand, Cause when you're really by yourself, It's hard to find someone to hold your hand" The mention of asking for help and expressing difficulty in understanding could imply a submissive plea for guidance and support from a dominant figure, that can take charge and provide comfort.
"And now it's gonna be, tough on me, But I will wait forever, "I need someone now to look into my eyes and tell me, Girl you know you gotta watch your health" The acknowledgment that it's going to be tough suggests a recognition of the challenges that may come with a submissive role, but the commitment to waiting forever reinforces the dedication to finding the right dominant partner, a care giver !
@PhdCoder shut up. it doesn’t scream dominate me. It doesn’t scream submissive girl who wants a dom. Your mentality with this is the mindset and views of a rapist. I would know. I was raped. I wasn’t looking for someone to touch my chest and force me down and hold me there on my hands and knees on their cold floor until they (my best friend/lover now ex) were done.
@PhdCoder shut up. it doesn’t scream dominate me. It doesn’t scream submissive girl who wants a dom. Your mentality with this is the mindset and views of a rapist. I would know. I was raped. I wasn’t looking for someone to touch my chest and force me down and hold me there on my hands and knees on their cold floor until they (my best friend/lover now ex) were done.
“I never walk about, after dark, its my point of view, someone could break your neck, coming up behind you, and you’d never have a clue.”...
“I never walk about, after dark, its my point of view, someone could break your neck, coming up behind you, and you’d never have a clue.” She’s not wanting someone to “take control unexpectedly”. No one wants to be beaten, to be used. She doesn’t like walking after dark because people could hurt her, and in your words “take control unexpectedly”. How did you possibly ever get the idea that if someone doesn’t like walking in the dark cause they could get raped, when they do because they have to, THEY’RE NOT LUSTING FOR A DOM THEY’RE TRYING TO GET HOME or whatever location is their destination.
“And now they look behind, all the time, I will wait forever, always looking straight, thinking, counting, all the hours you wait” the use of ‘they’ isn’t for multiple people. It’s like saying “who are they?” Instead of “who is he?”. They here is just a non-gender specific pronoun of the person. Even if it was more than one person, the victim waiting isn’t “eagerly accepting their arrival”. She’s disassociating, focusing all her mind on something else, anything but what they’re doing to her, and she’ll focus on something else and wait for it to be done for as long as it takes. I did this. When i was on my hands and knees, pinned to the ground by my so (now ex) i could do nothing. I just kept doing the task i was doing before, desperately trying to not accept and notice what my partner was doing to me.
“See you on a dark night”. What does this even have o do with “longing for encounters with a dominant partner during nightime?” Huh? She’s saying I see you on a dark night, aka it was nighttime. How is saying it was nighttime make it romantic? Murders happen at night. Grocery shopping happens at night. I dont see the train of thought at all. Sure, people often have sex with their s/o at night. But people do a ton of other things at night. That’s like saying because we have lunch at noon everything that happened around noon is food-related. next, how does it being nighttime reinforce intimate desire? This is totally nonsensical
“And now another clue, I would ask, if you could help me out, its hard to understand, cause when you’re really by yourself, its hard to find someone to hold your hand.” This is not “a submissive plea for guidance and support from a dominant figure, that can take charge and provide comfort”. It’s isolation. My ex isolated me from my friends and family. I was truly alone during those times, or at least that’s what my now ex-lover told me. When i was on the floor, i was all alone with my s/o. I was also constantly asking my partner for ways i could improve our relationship, as i did all the work.
“And now its gonna be, tough on me, but i will wait forever, i need someone now to look into my eves and tell me girl you know you gotta watch your health” my hygiene would drop after each rape i underwent (yes i was raped my multiple people, many times, all when i was a child), and i would hurt myself and not wash my hair to make me be “less attractive” because i thought in my head then it wouldn’t t happen. This is untrue, but i did really need someone to remind me to take care of myself. The i know its gonna be tough on me but i will wait forever is the long few months of that relationship i endured before i switched schools. My s/o was stronger than me, and if i left the relationship while i was at the same school as them i would be at their mercy, as they could easily beat me up. Once i left though, that major danger was gone and i could leave safely, with the path of least resistance, getting me out with minimal physical wounds. My goal was survival. That’s what i did.
I was raped three times, first in elementary school, then when i was 11, and then when i was twelve. I hate you for the reason of you are a victim blamer. I dont know what you’ll respond it you respond to this, but change your fucking mindset, and get therapy because you are probably a rapist as most of the ‘points’ you made are excuses and justifications rapists make for their crimes.
To the survivors out there, we are strong. We aren’t victims. It’s not wrong place wrong time. We’re leaders, survivors, fighters. We are enough. I support u ❤️
deep stuff. wonderful song.