Hear you got your troubles or so I've been told
Maybe just a couple but I'm not quite sold
I'm indifferent to the difference 'tween tomorrow and today
Less an indiscretion than a lesson I've been paid
The stages of recovery can signify your age
Like rings around a stump

That's something I know a little bit about, child
Maybe it's been getting a little bit crazy
I don't wanna be complaining, complaining, oh

All my friends go to bed dreaming up a reason they should weep
And all my friends go to the ends of the earth for secrets they don't wanna keep

Well, this is my confession: yes, yes
This is me confessin': god bless
The sad and selfish--stay helpless

'Cause I've always been stronger than that
All the weight of the world on my back
It's just love, selfish love
Love, selfish love

I've got nothing to confess, yes
I've got nothing to confess, yes

It is too easy to be scared sometimes, I'm not gonna lie
And I don't understand
It's like the whole world is jumping off a bridge
And you don't want to be the one
Standing on the ledge

All my friends go to the ends of the earth for secrets they don't wanna keep

Well, this is my confession: yes, yes
This is me confessin': god bless
The sad and selfish--stay helpless

'Cause I've always been stronger than that
All the weight of the world on my back
It's just love, selfish love
Love, selfish love

I've got nothing to confess, yes
I've got nothing to confess, yes


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    As I mentioned on another song, I love Patrick's ability to point out society's flaws. This song is all about that.

    "And all my friends go to the ends of the earth for secrets they don't wanna keep." Everyone seems to think that they need to know everyone else's business. Gossip, gossip, gossip. People can't get enough of it. They want to know all your dirty little secrets, but they don't want to keep them to themselves, they want to be the one who gets to broadcast it.

    "It's like the whole world is jumping off a bridge and you don't want to be the one standing on the ledge." People are sheep. No one knows how to make their own decisions or just be their own person anymore. People are doing that ? Well, you'd better do it too.

    Those are just the two lines from the song that really stand out to me. n_n Love it !

    lakeffectkidon March 26, 2011   Link

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