I finally found her but I haven't got a piece of her yet
And I wanna tell you by the way (I think I've ruined your body)
She said "I love you, but you're difficult"
Words I've heard so many times before but those words don't mean a thing
(never meant a thing before you)

I think I found her but I haven't found a way to her yet
I wanna tell you by the way (I think I've ruined your body)
I want to tell her that I love her, but I just don't know
Oh this is terrible

You sounded sober when you told me to come over
I could tell it in the sound of your voice
(I know I better be careful)

She said I never want to let you go
She told me so

Now let me tell you how these steps go.
Step 1, tell me what have I done
Step 2, you know you better better believe
Step 3, you'll never be like me so
Na-na-na-na-na-na-na-no no

I think I found her but I haven't found a way to her yet
I wanna tell you by the way (I think I've ruined your body)
I want to tell her that I love her, but I just don't know
Oh this is terrible

And all the rows in the pastor's church
Full of empty sighs and wine
And all the children have lost
And parted ways with God
And the Sunday dress

And all the rows in the pastor's church
Full of empty sighs and wine
And all the children have lost their way

I think I found her but I'll never let her in
So I guess we'll never know.

I think I found her but I haven't found a way to her yet
I wanna tell you by the way (I think I've ruined your body)
I want to tell her that I love her but I just don't know
Oh this is terrible [x3]

And I want to tell her that I love her, but I just don't know.
Oh this is terrible.


Lyrics submitted by whatawaytogoout, edited by CloudEater, MrRapist

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    Really? No comments?

    This song is amazing, and I think that it has to do with a guy being all wrong for a girl, and they both know it but they can't let each other go. ?

    & I think it's "and like the rows in the pastors church, full of empty sighs and wine, all the children have lost their holy ways with God, on a sunday" iidkk, that's just me. (:

    DearAngieon January 12, 2010   Link
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    I'm pretty sure it's "better believe."

    The first: "And in the rows in the Pasture's Church Full of empty sighs and wine, and all the children have lost their hardened ways With their sun blanked eyes"

    The second: "And in the rows in the Pasture's Church Full of empty sighs and wine, and all the children have lost their ways"

    Iambrosephon March 26, 2010   Link
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    This song is amazinggg! I can completely relate to it after my recent break up. I love it

    ktbaby6592on March 26, 2010   Link
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    As soon as I herd the first line in this song, I realized its the best song on this album.

    himynameismarqon March 27, 2010   Link
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    Yeah, its definitely called Empty Sighs and Wine...

    RebekahEvelynon April 13, 2010   Link
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    yes this song and isles and glaciers is very amazing i love them n its really cool becuz they all came from different bands like Jonny Craig came from Emarosa and Dance Gavin Dance and Vic and Mke Fuentes came from pierce the viel n then theres the wonderful Craig Owens who came from chiodos 4 amazing bands and 4 amazing artists i love them

    katherine0407on May 08, 2010   Link
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    I love how these guys all sound together! Vic's high, HIGH voice mixed with Jonny's insanely full sounding lower range, and of course the versatile Craig Owens. Together they make a pretty unique sound.. and everyone loves it! Personally its nice to hear Jonny doing something other than damn Emarosa, because i honestly think they blow since he's joined. They just lost their sound so much, now its all about his voice and a little background noise. However, back when he was in DanceGavinDance they all meshed pretty well. And thats what Isles & Glaciers is doing now, and it comes out sounding pretty damn awesome. Especially since its none of their respective members genre's exactly

    Vic&Mike are pop-punk/post-hardcore, Craig is post-hardcore all the way, and jonny craig has moved around a bit between some stuff. what they finally landed on with I&G is a strange mix that works perfectly.

    mechatanneron June 16, 2010   Link
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    My Interpretation

    What I got from it was that he's in love with someone who's taking advantage of him so much that it's wearing him out emotionally but he doesn't seem to care because he;s so in love? But then again there are parts that threw me of so Idk either. Their songs always have hard meanings

    DestinysDistractedon April 16, 2011   Link
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    I think he's afraid to love, that's all. He's in so deep already but he fears the aftermath hence the, "I think I found her but I'll never let her in."

    nojessyjustnoon October 04, 2012   Link

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