I lay down, I can't sleep
My mind drums on repeat
I stare at the ceiling from my side
I reach out, you're right there
But you're lost in the details
I wait for the end of a long night

You can blame it on the changes
I can take it any way it is
Just got lost but we both found
We need this more than ever
Can we take it? Can we save it?
Sink our teeth in, tear away at it
Can we hold out? Can you hold on?
'Cause I need you more than you know now

We play like we don't know
We both lie but we don't show
That something is changing between us
We start out in one lane, the same road
The same name but something we can't see divides us

You can blame it on the changes
I can take it any way it is
We just got lost but we both found
We need this more than ever
Can we take it? Can we save it?
Sink our teeth in, tear away at it
Can we hold out? Can you hold on?
'Cause I need you more than you know now

'Cause I need you more than you know now
'Cause I need you more than you know now

Don't run away 'cause I need you more than you know now
Don't run away, don't run away, don't run away

You can blame it on the changes
I can take it any way it is
We just got lost but we both found
We need this more than ever
Can we take it? Can we save it?
Sink our teeth in, tear away at it
Can we hold out? Can you hold on?
'Cause I need this more than ever
'Cause I need you more than you know now


Lyrics submitted by LizzE218

Blame It On The Changes Lyrics as written by Butch Walker Chris Carrabba

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    Wow... he robbed my brain! Words I can't express... this says it all. Hmm... amazing! :D

    ratanal85on November 05, 2009   Link
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    My Interpretation

    this sounds like a song about a couple finding out that they are pregnant, and dealing with the fact that the "changes" are something that will make them need each other for ever

    suff22000on November 10, 2009   Link
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    General Comment

    To me, the song resembles a couple that has finally realized that even though they have been together for so long...the path, or their love life's, have grown in different directions and though they both realize that the same feeling is not there as they first met, they both need each other.

    Lysticon November 11, 2009   Link
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    General Comment

    This song reminds me of my ex, when she graduated from college she went through alot of changes with what she wanted to do with her life...work, family, me, she made choices and I hope she made the right ones but it was tough being with her when they were going on.

    UofKXJon March 02, 2010   Link
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    General Comment

    I think it's about a relationship with both people changing and both of them going on different roads. They still have feelings for each other but are asking themselves if they should save their relationship or go on a break. The narrator (or singer) feels that they can ride out whatever phase they are going through and they have to stick together in order to do so.

    morecoffeeplson June 07, 2010   Link
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    It's about being with someone that you know you could love, and they are such a comfort to you. But you always have it in your mind that it won't really work out, that you aren't right for eachother. Both of your lives are changing and your lives are like two seperate worlds, and maybe the relationship is doomed to be over, but you still cling to that comfort and want it to work out. They keep lying at pretending everything is fine, and they're sick of it, but they still need eachother.

    "we play like we don't know we both lie but we don't show"

    Such a lovely song. They are amazing writers.

    Tayshaeeeon June 12, 2010   Link

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