I picked you up, I held you out
I love you, I love you
I placed you down, I held my breath
I wonder, yeah, I wonder
What'd I do? You're not around

It's a fall, I've got to tell you
That this wall was not meant for you
I see sides all, sides all around
Get through, you'll get through this

The moon strikes one, you rest your head
This refuge, oh this refuge
The sun comes up and life begins
There's danger, oh, there's danger
What'd I do if you weren't around?

It's a fall, I've got to tell you
That this wall was not meant for you
I see sides all, sides all around
You'll get through, you'll get through

The human condition
Needs a hiding place
This human condition
Needs a hiding place, a hiding place

It's a fall, I've got to tell you
That this wall was not meant for you
I see sides all, sides all around
You'll get through, you'll get through
You'll get through, through, you'll get through


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Refuge Lyrics as written by Raine Maida Duncan Coutts

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    General Comment

    The chorus actually goes

    [It's a father's job to tell you That this world was not meant for you. I see signs all, signs all around.]

    No question it stumped a lot of people until they read it.

    Amazing song though, it means a lot to me as a new father and knowing this world can be a shitty place.

    TheRefugeon August 08, 2009   Link
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    General Comment

    i'm pretty sure raine wrote this song about his three sons. about being a father and wishing his sons could grow up in a better world than this.

    Jenlieon August 14, 2009   Link
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    I guess being a father has to change your outlook on the world somehow. I don't think Raine has changed, even if the music style of OLP has. He still thinks the world is a pretty crappy place, but if you have children of your own you've got to have some hope that things will be allright, for their sake! ("You'll get through")

    SpiritualMonkeyon September 26, 2009   Link
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    Oh btw don't you think this song sounds quite "indie rock"? There's a few like that on the album, and I don't mind that.

    SpiritualMonkeyon September 26, 2009   Link

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