This is a hauntingly beautiful song about introspection, specifically about looking back at a relationship that started bad and ended so poorly, that the narrator wants to go back to the very beginning and tell himself to not even travel down that road. I believe that the relationship started poorly because of the lines:
"Take me back to the night we met:When the night was full of terrors: And your eyes were filled with tears: When you had not touched me yet"
So, the first night was not a great start, but the narrator pursued the relationship and eventually both overcame the rough start to fall in love with each other:
"I had all and then most of you"
Like many relationships that turn sour, it was not a quick decline, but a gradual one where the narrator and their partner fall out of love and gradually grow apart
"Some and now none of you"
Losing someone who was once everything in your world, who you could confide in, tell your secrets to, share all the most intimate parts of your life, to being strangers with that person is probably one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. So Painful, the narrator wants to go back in time and tell himself to not even pursue the relationship.
This was the perfect song for "13 Reasons Why"
I've seen myself in a thousand faces
Strung out on life's path
I would add up what you mean to me
But I cannot do the math
And this fashionista's garden party
Well I had enough of that
'Cause the only one I come undone for is you
Yes the only one I come undone
But I'm a special lover sometimes
But you only touch a ghost
I'm a sycophantic courtier with an elegant repose
And needless to say you're the one that I need the most
'Cause the only one I come undone for is you
Yes the only one I come undone for is you
Well the only one I come undone for is you
I know I'm done (I)
And now I see the truth
I know I'm done (I)
Come undone for you
And you've been gone for so long
Waiting here for you
You've been gone for so long
Come undone for you
There are people in this lifetime that we should never meet
'Cause to be here now without you
Well, my life's so incomplete
I'll tell you what you mean to me and maybe then you'll see
Ahhh
Ahhh, nahh
'Cause the only one I come undone for is you
Yes the only one I come undone for is you
Oh the only one I come undone for is you
No, no
Strung out on life's path
I would add up what you mean to me
But I cannot do the math
And this fashionista's garden party
Well I had enough of that
'Cause the only one I come undone for is you
Yes the only one I come undone
But I'm a special lover sometimes
But you only touch a ghost
I'm a sycophantic courtier with an elegant repose
And needless to say you're the one that I need the most
'Cause the only one I come undone for is you
Yes the only one I come undone for is you
Well the only one I come undone for is you
I know I'm done (I)
And now I see the truth
I know I'm done (I)
Come undone for you
And you've been gone for so long
Waiting here for you
You've been gone for so long
Come undone for you
There are people in this lifetime that we should never meet
'Cause to be here now without you
Well, my life's so incomplete
I'll tell you what you mean to me and maybe then you'll see
Ahhh
Ahhh, nahh
'Cause the only one I come undone for is you
Yes the only one I come undone for is you
Oh the only one I come undone for is you
No, no
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This is to me one of Vanessa's most beautiful songs. It's quirky and catchy and I love the instrumentation. It is basically about a person in love and how the loved one makes the person "come undone" and the person will do anything to be with the loved one.
"Sycophantic courtier" means a person who will do anything to please.
"Fashionista's garden party well I had enough of that" basically means that the person in love is a simple one.
It is a song about how love can be simple.
I love it. This song is so beautiful that I want to cry!
She has such cute lines that I wish I wrote: "I would add up what you mean to me But I cannot do the math"
Who wouldn't want to receive that as a sweet "I love you" type of text message? :p
I feel lucky to have that one person in my life that I can be open with and share everything and who knows secrets I could never tell anyone else. Love does make you come undone, vulnerable, but willing to share. I think she sums it up nicely in the end. Sometimes I think of my boyfriend when we're away from each other and I just have to say, "Gosh, I'm so annoyed at how much I miss him! I hate how much I love him." But at the same time I'm so lucky to have someone I hate missing. :)
"There are people in this lifetime that we should never meet ’Cause to be here now without you Well, my life’s so incomplete I’ll tell you what you mean to me and maybe then you’ll see
’Cause the only one I come undone for is you Yes the only one I come undone for is you"
I love the piano in this song. This one and Home. It's like...Amazing beyond comprehension. These songs are so beautiful..So simple and beautiful. They could bring anyone to tears. It's amazing.
I relate this to my best friend. I let all my guards down for him. I can tell him anything. I feel like I come undone for him, like I can just be and not worry about anything when I"m around him.
some boy. it's just a simple cute pure song about feelings for some boy. that anyone can relate to :)
Best love song ever:) The only one I come undone for is you...