Baby, look here at me
Have you ever seen me this way
I've been fumblin' for words
Through the tears and the hurt and the pain
I'm gonna lay it all out
On the line tonight
And I think that it's time
To tell this uphill fight goodbye

Have ever had to love someone
That just don't feel the same
Tryin' to make somebody care for you
The way I do
Is like tryin' to catch the rain
And if love is really forever
I'm a winner at a losin' game

I know that baby, you tried
To find me somewhere inside of you
But you know you can't lie
Girl, you can't hide the truth
Sometimes two hearts
Just can't dance to the same beat
So I'll pack up my things
And I'll take what remains of me

Have ever had to love someone
That just don't feel the same
Tryin' to make somebody care for you
The way I do
Is like tryin' to catch the rain
And if love is really forever
I'm a winner at a losin' game

I know that I'll never be the man that you need or love
Yeah, baby it's killin' me to stand here and see
I'm not what you've been dreamin' of

Have ever had to love someone
That just don't feel the same
Tryin' to make somebody care for you
The way I do
Is like tryin' to catch the rain
And if love is really forever
I'm a winner at a losin' game

Oh, oh, if love is really forever
I'm a winner at a losin' game
Ooo, I'm tired of losing
Oh, oh, oh


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    This is my life in a nutshell! I hate how perfectly this song relates to my life! I heard this song in my car on my lunch break a week after I broke up with my bf and started to cry.

    Basically, This guy has fought his last battle to win her heart..."uphill battle" and for as much as he doesn't want to, "through all the tears and the hurt and the pain", he has to give her up and take the only strength he has left to walk away b/c he knows it isn't ever going to work for them.

    "trying to make someone care for you" is almost impossible when the other person isn't going to or doesn't want to. And for how ever hard they try to make themselves love you... it just won't happen "two hearts just can't dance to the same beat"

    This part always gets me "I know that I'll never be the man that you need or love Yeah, baby it's killin' me to stand here and see I'm not what you've been dreamin' of..." We broke up twice... and I had felt this way from the minute we got back together. I just knew I was going to be fighting a battle to get into his heart that I could never win.

    And I didn't... I was never good enough to make him care or love me or worth it for him to change his ways. And now I'm tired of losing.

    This song rips me apart but I keep hitting the play button.

    Jamersd45on April 17, 2008   Link

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