Please, don't flatter yourself
You're not the only one
Whose heart has ever fell
Please, don't exaggerate
Don't tell me you're okay
Okay, okay

[Chorus]
I will admit if you'll admit it
It's harder than we both thought
It's easier to fall apart
Look where we are
I can forgive it, I can't forget it
You left me here with all these scars
And you can't deny the hardest part: I'm not in your arms

We're hurt more than we appear
The world will never know
We both have taste in tears
My dear
You're denying what I say
Don't act like it's okay
'Cause it's not okay

[Chorus]

It's not in the stars!
I'm not sorry, I'm not sorry, I'm not sorry
I will admit if you'll admit it
Just, please, don't flatter yourself
Please, don't flatter yourself


Lyrics submitted by sweetilex08

Flattery Lyrics as written by Alyson Michalka Antonina Armato

Lyrics © Walt Disney Music Company, Downtown Music Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.

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    I think it's about this guy who is in a relationship with this girl and is getting a total big head because he's going out with her. And she's telling him to come down to earth and stop "flattering" himself. And she's also asking him to admit that it isn't as good as they thought it would be and stop lying to himself, "flattering" himself that he is in a strong relationship.

    Stolen_By_Musicon January 07, 2008   Link
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    We both have tasty tears, my dear

    it's "tasted" tears.

    haha, tasty.

    i think it's about him leaving her with all these scars, and it's really hard to move on. But they are, and they are staying strong. And for him not to flatter himself about moving on and blah blah blah.

    xAlternativexon January 09, 2009   Link
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    this song is seriously amazing my favourite off of insomniatic.

    thrwmyhrtawy.on July 22, 2007   Link
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    heh, i think it's :

    we both have 'tasted' tears.

    tasty seems kool though. :]

    thrwmyhrtawy.on July 24, 2007   Link
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    this is my favorite too! i could listen to it over and over.

    Mrs Malfoyon August 01, 2007   Link
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    i think its about two people breaking up and pretending that it doesnt hurt nice song :D

    music.addictxoxon August 31, 2007   Link
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    i think this song is one of there songs they ever written

    topaz-eyeson December 28, 2007   Link
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    ^I agree

    This song breaks my heart, but I love it though!

    Nikki--xoxoon September 24, 2008   Link
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    This song is really amazing. It's different because it's so far off of what the whole disney-hollywoodrecords-teeny-bopper genre. It's very deep and emotional and enjoyable to a variety of crowds.

    kaijaroseon September 18, 2011   Link

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