I�m not coming to your party, girl.
No, no, girl.
I ain�t gonna come to your party.
No I ain�t, girl.
No, I�m not coming to your party, girl.
I�m not gonna make it over there, girl.
I ain�t gonna make it your party.
Whooo, yeah.

Why would I show up?
Just to see what I cant have?
Why don�t you grow up?
[Ohhh..] Dump your douche and get a man.
It�s all the same,
[Ohhh..] Every time I see you there.
I�ve gone insane,
[Aww..] & Now I�m pulling out my hair.

[Ohh..] Now baby,
You�re such a drag.
[Ohh..] You tie me up and kick me down,
[Ughh..] I�m getting mad
[Ohh..] Go find yourself another clown.
You poison me.
[Ughh..] Your rich venom in my veins.
You�re boiling me..
[Aww..] & Now I�m penning in the pains.

I don�t know if I told you yet� but, uhhh�
Yeah, I�m not coming to your party, girl.
Uh-uh, girl.
No, no, I�m not coming to your party.
I�m not gonna make it over there.
I�m not gonna make it your little get-together, baby.
No, no, no
I�m not gonna come to your fiesta, girl.
I�m not gonna make it, girl.

I wont be dancing with you, girl.
No I�ll be dancing alone.
I wont be dancing with you, girl.
No I�ll be dancing alone.
[Whooo, ughhh�]
I wont be dancing with you, girl.
No I�ll be dancing alone, alone, alone, alone.
I wont be dancing with you, girl.
�Cause I�ll be dancing alone.
I wont be dancing with you, baby.
I�ll be dancing on my own.
I wont be dancing with you, girl.
I�ll be dancing alone.
I wont be dancing with you now, baby.
I�ll be dancing on my own.


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    I love this song! 3oh!3 is AMAZING. mostly I think this song is talking about how he doesn't want to go to this girls party just to see her with some other man, because he really loves her.

    xoWhiteNoiseon November 13, 2008   Link

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