This is a hauntingly beautiful song about introspection, specifically about looking back at a relationship that started bad and ended so poorly, that the narrator wants to go back to the very beginning and tell himself to not even travel down that road. I believe that the relationship started poorly because of the lines:
"Take me back to the night we met:When the night was full of terrors: And your eyes were filled with tears: When you had not touched me yet"
So, the first night was not a great start, but the narrator pursued the relationship and eventually both overcame the rough start to fall in love with each other:
"I had all and then most of you"
Like many relationships that turn sour, it was not a quick decline, but a gradual one where the narrator and their partner fall out of love and gradually grow apart
"Some and now none of you"
Losing someone who was once everything in your world, who you could confide in, tell your secrets to, share all the most intimate parts of your life, to being strangers with that person is probably one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. So Painful, the narrator wants to go back in time and tell himself to not even pursue the relationship.
This was the perfect song for "13 Reasons Why"
I married in the sun (tell me where, tell me where)
Against the stone of buildings built before
You and I were born (start again, start again)
And to my heart confusion rose against
The muscles fought so long (fought so long)
To control against the pull of one
Magnet
To another magnet
To another magnet
Now we look up in (tell me who, tell me who)
Into the eyes of bullies breaking backs
They seem so very tough (it's a lie, it's a lie)
They seem so very scared of us
I look into the mirror (look into)
For evil that just does not exist
I don't see what they see (tell them that, tell them that)
Try to control the pull of one
Magnet
To another magnet
To another magnet
To another magnet
To another
Against the stone of buildings built before
You and I were born (start again, start again)
And to my heart confusion rose against
The muscles fought so long (fought so long)
To control against the pull of one
Magnet
To another magnet
To another magnet
Now we look up in (tell me who, tell me who)
Into the eyes of bullies breaking backs
They seem so very tough (it's a lie, it's a lie)
They seem so very scared of us
I look into the mirror (look into)
For evil that just does not exist
I don't see what they see (tell them that, tell them that)
Try to control the pull of one
Magnet
To another magnet
To another magnet
To another magnet
To another
Lyrics submitted by delial, edited by daisybelle95
I Was Married Lyrics as written by Tegan Rain Quin Sara Keirsten Quin
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
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"I’ve read that ‘I Was Married’ is about gay marriage. What made you write about that? Sara went through a lot this year. She and her partner, who is American, decided to apply for permanent (Canadian) residency as common law partners. She said there was a moment while they were filling out the paperwork where she thought, ‘It feels like we’re getting married!’ That’s what prompted her to write the song.
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that's from an interview tegan had with gaydarradio.com
man, i dont blame tegan and sara for being lesbians, boys are jerks when it comes to love
Sara and Emy did get a common law marriage, they had ben dating for 5 years. This song also makes references to people who don't accept gay marriage, or gayness in general. Sadly, her and Emy have broke up since then.
Sara and Emy were declared commonlaw married. I read that somewhere. They were together for 5 years.
And the song is basically saying that she sees not the evil that everyone seems to see when they look at gays. She's talking about not understanding homophobia ETC.
It's beautiful. I adore this song. It helps me a lot.
I think this song is about gay marriage....but im not sure! Just some lines such as "i look into the mirror (look into)/ for evil that just not exist. Those lines stand out the most for me!
I think this song is about gay marriage....but im not sure! Just some lines such as "i look into the mirror (look into)/ for evil that just not exist. Those lines stand out the most for me!
have to agree with abi999 here, it's pretty clear.
"to my heart confusion rose against" and "the muscles fought so long to control against the pull of one magnet to another magnet" are about denying one's own attraction to others.
the "they" are those who are homophobic and disdainful.
I believe this song is about a homosexual relationship... I think when she sings, "they seem so very scared of us" and "I look into the mirror for evil that just does not exist I don’t see what they see." She is talking about how a lot of people don't accept them for being lesbians. Like "they" (the people who are "scared" of them) see evil while she (Tegan and Sara) see just a regular person, which is right. I believe homosexual people are just like straight people. Being gay myself, I applaud Tegan and Sara for writing this song. It makes a bold statement.
i agree with above. and also the lyrics "try to control the pull of one magnet to another magnet to another magnet to another magnet to another"
are saying they can't help who they are attracted to and that you can't change someone for being "gay". you can't control the pull of one magnet to another (attraction).
i heard the lyrics as "try to control the pull of one madness to another madness etc" and i thought they were possibly referring to going from one drama to the next, and that small part of us that likes the dramas in our lives, and trying to control it.