The song lyrics were written by the band Van Halen, as they were asked to write a song for the 1979 movie "Over the Edge" starring Matt Dillon. The movie (and the lyrics, although more obliquely) are about bored, rebellious youth with nothing better to do than get into trouble. If you see the movie, these lyrics will make more sense. It's a great movie if you grew up in the 70s/80s you'll definitely remember some of these characters from your own life. Fun fact, after writing the song, Van Halen decided not to let the movie use it.
why does it hurt everytime she leaves
if it doesnt mean a thing i wont worry
something must be wrong cause you never leaves
if it doesnt mean a thing i wont worry
maybe im just missing this
but nothing missing from this kid
or maybe im just think of it wrong
cause shes my best friend
shes my best friend
and i nearly lost a reason
just like you lose some change
now she changed mine forever
and ill never be the same
i can try to move on lonely
she might never let me go
why do we have these thoughts
ill never know
ill never know
why does she look at me that way
well i nearly lost a reason
just like you lose some change
now she changed mine forever
and ill never be the same
i could try to move on lonely
she might never let me go
and why do we, why do we
oh why do we, why do we
and why do, we why do we
why do we have these thoughts
ill never know
ill never know
if it doesnt mean a thing i wont worry
something must be wrong cause you never leaves
if it doesnt mean a thing i wont worry
maybe im just missing this
but nothing missing from this kid
or maybe im just think of it wrong
cause shes my best friend
shes my best friend
and i nearly lost a reason
just like you lose some change
now she changed mine forever
and ill never be the same
i can try to move on lonely
she might never let me go
why do we have these thoughts
ill never know
ill never know
why does she look at me that way
well i nearly lost a reason
just like you lose some change
now she changed mine forever
and ill never be the same
i could try to move on lonely
she might never let me go
and why do we, why do we
oh why do we, why do we
and why do, we why do we
why do we have these thoughts
ill never know
ill never know
Lyrics submitted by pukesthedayaway
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