I’m sure that I’m moving to St Louis
Three long years wondering here in New York City
I guess I’m looking for the right way to do this
I guess I’m looking for the right things to call pretty

Young boys playing in the park turning their backs to take a shot
You know I’ll stay sharp around here ‘cause they’re stoning and leaving type
It’s the kind of love that comes and goes when there’s company coming around

What’s a boy to do who knows no man now
What’s a boy to do who knows no man now

Daddy’s been looking down his nose at all of them
And I’ve been looking round for someone to tell me who I am
He kept saying I was too young to finish a fight
I’d die each time they came I never got to draw my knife

Well it was just a pair of shoes in a middle school room with the world watching in
An angel is crying I’m dying just a little inside as they ran away
Funny which words stick around 20 years down when you’re driving alone

What’s a boy to do when there’s no man at home
What’s a boy to do when there’s no man at home

Well I’ll stack all my books into perfect rows
From the biggest down to the smallest ones
And I buy all the perfect clothes
Bullet proof and black, where I look like a son

Well it was just a rainy night at his house
A bottle spinning around the room
And everybody’s singing and slipping down the bottom of a halfway rush of blood
And I was grabbing Missy but I was trying to find the light switch in the dark

What’s a boy to do with no man in his heart
What’s a boy to do with no man in his heart

It’s all quiet for the first time
With no voices left to fall
I saw a boy at the bottom of the bridge
His car was left there on the top

It’s four o’clock in the morning
Didn’t need to be like this
There’s a white sheet left to cover up
What should have been a holy kiss
It’s not like those days
It’s not like I’m scared of you

What’s the son of man and a boy to do
What’s the son of man and a boy to you


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    Ok so personally I think that this song has to do with two people. Similar stories though. The father isnt there, and the kid suffers from that. Its like " what am I supposed to do when my own father doesn't want me? What am I, a BOY supposed to do when I'm expected to be a man?" like, he never really learned what a man really was. When the father was supposed to listen never cared that he was bullied. He relates to someone in the same situation, that's why he talks about the suicide. Someone with the same problem killed himself. Why not him? What's a boy to do when he was never taught to be a man, and he's forced to deal with these adult problems? He acts like he's a man but he "has no man in his heart" meaning he has no faith in his father and he is not ready to be a man. That's my interpretation. And how could it be about god? Does god's love come and go when company comes? I don't think so. There may be Christian references but I don't believe its all about god.

    lalalalainey12on January 07, 2009   Link

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