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Separate Lives Lyrics

You called me from the room in your hotel
All full of romance
For someone that you met
Telling me how sorry you were
Leaving so soon
And that you miss me sometimes
When you're alone in your room
Do I feel lonely too?

You have no right to ask me how I feel
You have no right to speak to me so kind
I can't go on holding onto ties
Now that we're living separate lives

I held on to let you go
And if you lost your love for me
You never let it show
There was no way to compromise
So now we're living separate lives

Oh, it's so typical
Love leads to isolation
So you build that wall (build that wall)
Yes, you build that wall (build that wall)
And you make it stronger

You have no right to ask me how I feel
You have no right to speak to me so kind
Someday I might
Find myself looking in your eyes
But for now we'll go on living
Separate lives

Yes, for now we'll go on living
Separate lives
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Okay, I am not sure if no one is commenting because the lyrics say it all, or because they have never heard this song.

Anyway, I have talked to a lot of friends who have had breakups, and a lot of them say the same thing. The girl who just dumped them expects the relationship to stay close and for them to be best friends.

To me, this song is saying what is really in the mind of all those guys. I consider myself pretty forgiving, but I would feel exactly as this song says, that she has no right to act as if nothing is different.

Cover art for Separate Lives lyrics by Phil Collins

I love how their voices belnd together. I think it's a beautiful song.

Cover art for Separate Lives lyrics by Phil Collins

Well this is the first time I've posted on this site after reading so many lyrics my ex posted on Napster; her way of cryptic communication in the history field to hopefully get a positive response from me to fuel her Narcissistic Personality Disorder traits. This song is so fitting for me, it really helps me to move along. My ex before we parted had a guy set up to help fuel her egotistical side, from what I can read into, she wants me to sit on the sidelines as her friend and watch me suffer. I'm known by my own family and friends to be an extremely nice guy buy my ex tried to condition me to believe otherwise. I'm hoping this has sent the correct message back to show to her, if you love someone then you totally respect them, but then again someone with NPD have no empathy for other people's suffering. If anyone else has ever had to suffer this kind of ordeal, then from my Heart to Yours and run for the hills and never look back.

Cover art for Separate Lives lyrics by Phil Collins

Wow. Can your heart really be THAT hard? This is an amazing song which musically and lyrically speaks to an experience that all of us have had. I mean most of us....

Cover art for Separate Lives lyrics by Phil Collins

Another powerful song. Great song.

Cover art for Separate Lives lyrics by Phil Collins

Sometime It's the wrong place, wrong time, and wrong circumstance.

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Cover art for Separate Lives lyrics by Phil Collins

absolute cringeworthy 80s standard. As usual with any phil collins song there is no substance to be found in this laughable duet.

@sivilla Not written by Phil Collins. Just performed by him and Marilyn Martin as part of the sound track for the film White Nights, and with lyrics that make sense in the context of its plot….