So here's the truth
You were right all along
You were never my friends
I was living a lie
But I won't fall for it next time

You figured me out
Like a leaf in the wind
I try to find who I am
But wind up lost in the end
Sometimes it's hard to know what's real
When your not

'Cause you know I change myself to impress
Whoever happens to be next to me
But I'm sick of trying so hard
Waste all your time with me
I know I'm a mess right now
Don't give up, believe
I'd wait it out for you
Waste all your time with me
I know I'm a mess right now
Don't give up, believe
I'd wait it out for you

Every day I'm just making my rounds
Just digging a hole 6 feet underground
Sometimes it's hard to know what's real
When your not

'Cause you know I change myself to impress
Whoever happens to be next to me
But I'm sick of trying so hard
Waste all your time with me
I know I'm a mess right now
Don't give up, believe
I'd wait it out for you
Waste all your time with me
I know I'm a mess right now
Don't give up, believe
I'd wait it out for you

Nothing's here for me
Nothing's here for me
Nothing's here for me
But you

Waste all your time with me
I know I'm a mess right now
Don't give up, believe
I'd wait it out for you
Waste all your time with me
I know I'm a mess right now
Don't give up, believe
I'd wait it out for you

I'd wait it out for you
I'd wait it out for you


Lyrics submitted by constant

Remember to Feel Real Lyrics as written by Anthony Diionno Ben Jorgensen

Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group

Lyrics powered by LyricFind

Remember To Feel Real song meanings
Add Your Thoughts

38 Comments

sort form View by:
  • +1
    General Comment

    This song reminds me EXACTLY of me. My attitude, voice, everything would change when I was talking to different people. I sort of had a group of friends, but finally realized that they aren't like me, so I threw them away. I'm always trying to find myself, but when you have Major Depressive Disorder like I do, you can barely think, and so I'm just stuck. When he's saying "waste all your time with me, I know I'm a mess right now, but don't give up and leave, I'd wait it out for you", he's reminding me of how I only have one person who understands me, and sometimes my disorder makes me think that she doesn't care about me when she deeply does, and then I get moody and she just says she has to leave, but then we apologize to each other later, and she says she isn't gonna let me go. So I'm just waiting for the depression to go away, and when I get all moody, it scares me because I think that she might give up and leave.

    HeavyFromThePainon August 11, 2006   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    It's about finding out who you are. 'you know i change myslef to impress whoever happens to be next to me' he's saying 'hey, i'm trying to be what you need me to be, im trying to fit in' and he also talks about how h's sorry if he can't be the right guy and how he just wants time because he thinks he can change. i'd say more but i don't feel so hott... great band

    rockstrNdisguiseon February 07, 2005   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    agreed :]

    dpaslon February 15, 2005   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    i think it's actually ... ' dont give up, believe' instead of 'dont give up in me'.

    heather1787on March 09, 2005   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    It's "They were never my friends" not "You were never my friends"

    SilentHarmonyon March 17, 2005   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    he's actually dead, and now he's waiting for his lady to join him, but he's getting frusterated with not being able to communicate with her. the waiting "it" out, i think, means the rest of her life.

    Amazing album.

    illiniwek05on April 08, 2005   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    this song might be getting away from the concept album and is just talking about a person always changing themselves to please the people around them. this finally leads to a breakdown and hes asking the girl to stay with him while he figures himself out

    MySensesHavFailed35on April 14, 2005   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    This song (and the whole album) reminds me of the last few months of my relationship with my ex. I know it's odd but it fits perfectly this song reminds of the whole period where other girls noticed me and she tried to tell me they were fake and I just pushed here away but now I realize she was right.

    I know thats not what it's about but thats what I think of when I hear it.

    The Fighteron July 26, 2005   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    Everyday I’m just making my rounds Just digging a hole 6 feet underground Sometimes its hard to know what’s real when your not i love those lines armor for sleep are awesome love the stuff they produce. hope they will tour australia sometime

    _andrewon September 07, 2005   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    Cause you know I change myself to impress Whoever happens to be next to me But I’m sick of trying so hard Waste all your time with me I know I’m a mess right now Don’t give up in me I’d wait it out for you Waste all your time with me I know I’m a mess right now Don’t give up in me I’d wait it out for you

    i think those lines, are what makes the song what it is

    this song makes me think of myself. because when im around certian people im not myself and iw as recently told that which hurt more then anything and it also makes me think of a fucked up relations hip i just almost fell into. a girl was leading me on and i foind out and i swera to god i hated her but like ic ant forget her and "Nothing’s here for me Nothing’s here for me Nothing’s here for me But you" is sorta what im feeling i fell liek theres no hope left but whever if eel like leaving im drawn back by her,

    colortoniteredon January 02, 2006   Link

Add your thoughts

Log in now to tell us what you think this song means.

Don’t have an account? Create an account with SongMeanings to post comments, submit lyrics, and more. It’s super easy, we promise!

More Featured Meanings

Album art
Standing On The Edge Of Summer
Thursday
In regards to the meaning of this song: Before a live performance on the EP Five Stories Falling, Geoff states “It’s about the last time I went to visit my grandmother in Columbus, and I saw that she was dying and it was the last time I was going to see her. It is about realizing how young you are, but how quickly you can go.” That’s the thing about Geoff and his sublime poetry, you think it’s about one thing, but really it’s about something entirely different. But the lyrics are still universal and omnipresent, ubiquitous, even. So relatable. That’s one thing I love about this band. I also love their live performances, raw energy and Geoff’s beautiful, imperfectly perfect vocals. His voice soothes my aching soul.
Album art
Fast Car
Tracy Chapman
"Fast car" is kind of a continuation of Bruce Springsteen's "Born to Run." It has all the clawing your way to a better life, but in this case the protagonist never makes it with her love; in fact she is dragged back down by him. There is still an amazing amount of hope and will in the lyrics; and the lyrics themselve rank and easy five. If only music was stronger it would be one of those great radio songs that you hear once a week 20 years after it was released. The imagery is almost tear-jerking ("City lights lay out before us", "Speeds so fast felt like I was drunk"), and the idea of starting from nothing and just driving and working and denigrating yourself for a chance at being just above poverty, then losing in the end is just painful and inspiring at the same time.
Album art
Gentle Hour
Yo La Tengo
This song was originally written by a guy called Peter Gutteridge. He was one of the founders of the "Dunedin Sound" a musical scene in the south of New Zealand in the early 80s. From there it was covered by "The Clean" one of the early bands of that scene (he had originally been a member of in it's early days, writing a couple of their best early songs). The Dunedin sound, and the Clean became popular on american college radio in the mid to late 80s. I guess Yo La Tengo heard that version. Great version of a great song,
Album art
Punchline
Ed Sheeran
Ed Sheeran sings about missing his former partner and learning important life lessons in the process on “Punchline.” This track tells a story of battling to get rid of emotions for a former lover, whom he now realized might not have loved him the same way. He’s now caught between accepting that fact and learning life lessons from it and going back to beg her for another chance.
Album art
Head > Heels
Ed Sheeran
“Head > Heels” is a track that aims to capture what it feels like to experience romance that exceeds expectations. Ed Sheeran dedicates his album outro to a lover who has blessed him with a unique experience that he seeks to describe through the song’s nuanced lyrics.