The song lyrics were written by the band Van Halen, as they were asked to write a song for the 1979 movie "Over the Edge" starring Matt Dillon. The movie (and the lyrics, although more obliquely) are about bored, rebellious youth with nothing better to do than get into trouble. If you see the movie, these lyrics will make more sense. It's a great movie if you grew up in the 70s/80s you'll definitely remember some of these characters from your own life. Fun fact, after writing the song, Van Halen decided not to let the movie use it.
And if you love me, you'd better tell me so.
And if you love me, you'd better let me know.
Girl I had this feeling, for a week or so
Thinkin' that you're leavin', Is there something I should know?
Have you found another lover? Or is it just the end?
I'm just sick and tired of tryin', tryin' to be friends.
How can I tell you, make you understand?
For all the things you wanted, I done the best I can.
I won't make excuses for being who I am,
You say change is here, but I don't, I don't give a damn.
I don't give a damn.
Slege d'you give a damn?
And if you love me, you'd better tell me so.
And if you love me, you'd better let me know.
I never had a secret, I never lied to you,
And what we had together was not enough for you.
You see daddy told me, "Son don't hate yourself."
I'll just head out on that road while you find, you find someone else.
You find someone else.
You find, you find, you find someone else.
And if you love me, you'd better tell me so.
And if you love me, you'd better let me know.
Is there another lover? Or is it just the end?
I'm just sick and tired of tryin'...
And if you love me, you'd better let me know.
Girl I had this feeling, for a week or so
Thinkin' that you're leavin', Is there something I should know?
Have you found another lover? Or is it just the end?
I'm just sick and tired of tryin', tryin' to be friends.
How can I tell you, make you understand?
For all the things you wanted, I done the best I can.
I won't make excuses for being who I am,
You say change is here, but I don't, I don't give a damn.
I don't give a damn.
Slege d'you give a damn?
And if you love me, you'd better tell me so.
And if you love me, you'd better let me know.
I never had a secret, I never lied to you,
And what we had together was not enough for you.
You see daddy told me, "Son don't hate yourself."
I'll just head out on that road while you find, you find someone else.
You find someone else.
You find, you find, you find someone else.
And if you love me, you'd better tell me so.
And if you love me, you'd better let me know.
Is there another lover? Or is it just the end?
I'm just sick and tired of tryin'...
Lyrics submitted by skacore_dude
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