My Daddy called me on a Friday morning, so sad to tell me just what you’d done
You tried so hard to make us all hate you but in the end you was the only one
Sick, tired, pissed and wired, you never thought about anyone else.
You tried in vain to find something to kill you
In the end you had to do it yourself.

Who's to blame for the loveless marriage, who's to blame for the broken band.
You ran from life and all of it's pleasures, your own teeth marks on your own damned hand.
Thrown out before the date's expired, you'd rather die than let anyone help,
You'd rather die than take a stab at living.
Nothing would kill you so you do it yourself.

Everyone has those times when the night's so long
The dead-end life just drags you down
You lean back under the microphone
And turn your demons into walls of god damned noise and sound.

And it's a sorry thing to do to your sweet sister
It's a sorry thing to do to your little boy
It's a sorry thing to do to the folks who love you
Your Mama and Daddy lost their only boy
Some should say I should cut you slack, but you worked so hard at unhappiness.
Living too hard just couldn't kill you
In the end you had to do it yourself.

Living too hard just couldn't kill you
In the end you had to do it yourself.


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Do It Yourself Lyrics as written by Patterson Hood

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    The companion song to When the Pin Hits the Shell. Cooley and Hood had a mutual friend commit suicide and both wrote a song about it on from different perspectives that are on Decoration Day. They both have a kind of you don't get my sympathy vibe to them, just different vibe in the music really.

    Jaydoton March 13, 2012   Link
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    I feel like Cooley's despite being a little more graphic "the pin hits the shell", is a little less angry.

    dan1126154on January 08, 2020   Link

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