Tied To My Neck Lyrics

When he made reference to a certain 'you' I think that it doesn't target a certain person and his/her's actions to the girl, i think it symbolises everything that can rock a relationship such as:
You gave me hate, greed, confusion... You told me nine times before and you said that her touch was not love all these years... (distrust, doubt)
Man I just love the last seven lines of this song because I can relate to it so much, not just the whole love issue, but the feeling of being unable to return what other people have given to you. For him, this girl gave him life and everything but he must have done something, such as ignore her advances. and by the time he realises this, he's too late and to the girl, she is dying to him (maybe have found another person?):
I have so much conscience tied to my neck. I want to swim atop of this sea and give her all the love which has so diligently fallen under lock and key.
fuck one of my favourite i love everything about this song