I don't care anymore if I let you down
I believe that I need to be free
I'm so used to my life with you around
I don't know anymore....the real me

And i thought i found my self today
And I thought that I had control
All the change in my life just fell away
For a moment I didn't need you

All these tears that I've cried
You must be tired of taking care of me but
Its what you do best and
I'm a liar cause really its what I need

And I thought that I found myself today
And I thought that I had control
All the change in my life just fell away
For a moment I didn't need you

Someone like you
Someone like me
Maybe its change that set you free
Free....

And I thought that I found myself today
And I thought that I had control
All the change in my life just fell away
For a moment I didn't need you

And I thought that I found myself today
And I thought that I had control
All the change in my life just fell away
For a moment I didn't need you


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Finding Myself Lyrics as written by John Parker Derek Gledhill

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    Beautiful song, that pretty much sums up my life as of late! Just when u thnk u have everything under control& you think you might have figured out how to get what you want, its gonna turn to shit. But oh well thats just life i guess

    Krwlng_n_mie_sknon April 20, 2004   Link
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    I don't care anymore if I let you down I believe that I need to be free

    awesome

    ADimeADexteron July 03, 2004   Link
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    Beautiful song, chorus is great, symbolises when someone realises something for a split second, comes out of their shell, then thinks about something like failure and sinks back to how they were before... like someone relapsing on drugs

    syko_braton October 15, 2005   Link
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    I love this song

    Justanotherejecton August 08, 2006   Link
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    I always thought it was about him being sick of being in a relationship with someone, because he feels like that person is running his life. So he wants to escape and 'be free' be single again. Be his own person.

    macdadeeon January 19, 2009   Link
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    This song is like the describing the relationship I am in right now. I love this song. Its definetly my anthem!

    Elisa04on December 08, 2004   Link
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    i always thought it was chains this song is about some one leaving home to live on his own for the first time. he wants to leave but he doesnt know how to live without his parents.

    Citystarzon January 07, 2005   Link
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    You know, this one makes me think of my relationship a lot... It's a beautiful song. Very simplistic, but great.

    Imguamon February 28, 2006   Link
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    this song is about coming to a realization... about living life without someone, then realizing that that person is everything you really need. "and i THOUGHT that i found myself..." he thought that originally, but he realized something different... "for A MOMENT i didn't need you" for a moment, he was independant, for one moment, her presence wasn't necessary.... but one moment, because really he does need her. he's trying to see life from the outside, and realizes the whole time he was inside (where he needed to be)

    sapienzaon March 27, 2006   Link
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    this song is about coming to a realization... about living life without someone, then realizing that that person is everything you really need. "and i THOUGHT that i found myself..." he thought that originally, but he realized something different... "for A MOMENT i didn't need you" for a moment, he was independant, for one moment, her presence wasn't necessary.... but one moment, because really he does need her. he's trying to see life from the outside, and realizes the whole time he was inside (where he needed to be)

    sapienzaon March 27, 2006   Link

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