The song lyrics were written by the band Van Halen, as they were asked to write a song for the 1979 movie "Over the Edge" starring Matt Dillon. The movie (and the lyrics, although more obliquely) are about bored, rebellious youth with nothing better to do than get into trouble. If you see the movie, these lyrics will make more sense. It's a great movie if you grew up in the 70s/80s you'll definitely remember some of these characters from your own life. Fun fact, after writing the song, Van Halen decided not to let the movie use it.
Every day I see your eyes
And you look at mine, and you don't say hi
You smile at me as you walk away
And I won't see you for another day
I can't get up the nerve to call you
But you're not waiting for me, are you?
Another day, and I try to smile
I have not felt this way in quite a while
We pass again and we both say hi
And it feels so good when you pass me by
I can't get up the nerve to call you
But you're not waiting for me, are you?
I can't get up the nerve to call you
But you're not waiting for me, are you?
This time around I'll flash a smile
You know I'm more than just a child
You tell me that your boyfriend's mad
And so's your mom, and so's your dad
I can't get up the nerve to call you
But you're not waiting for me, are you?
Are you?
And you look at mine, and you don't say hi
You smile at me as you walk away
And I won't see you for another day
I can't get up the nerve to call you
But you're not waiting for me, are you?
Another day, and I try to smile
I have not felt this way in quite a while
We pass again and we both say hi
And it feels so good when you pass me by
I can't get up the nerve to call you
But you're not waiting for me, are you?
I can't get up the nerve to call you
But you're not waiting for me, are you?
This time around I'll flash a smile
You know I'm more than just a child
You tell me that your boyfriend's mad
And so's your mom, and so's your dad
I can't get up the nerve to call you
But you're not waiting for me, are you?
Are you?
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Can't Get up the Nerve Lyrics as written by George Weiss Bennie Benjamin
Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
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