Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
And as I climb into an empty bed
Oh well. Enough said.
I know it's over - still I cling
I don't know where else I can go
Oh...

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
See, the sea wants to take me
The knife wants to slit me
Do you think you can help me?

Sad veiled bride, please be happy
Handsome groom, give her room
Loud, loutish lover, treat her kindly
(Though she needs you
More than she loves you)
And I know it's over - still I cling
I don't know where else I can go
Over and over and over and over
Over and over, la...

I know it's over
And it never really began
But in my heart it was so real
And you even spoke to me, and said :
"If you're so funny
Then why are you on your own tonight ?
And if you're so clever
Then why are you on your own tonight ?
If you're so very entertaining
Then why are you on your own tonight ?
If you're so very good-looking
Why do you sleep alone tonight ?
I know...

'Cause tonight is just like any other night
That's why you're on your own tonight
With your triumphs and your charms
While they're in each other's arms..."
It's so easy to laugh
It's so easy to hate
It takes strength to be gentle and kind
Over, over, over, over

It's so easy to laugh
It's so easy to hate
It takes guts to be gentle and kind
Over, over
Love is natural and real
But not for you, my love
Not tonight, my love
Love is natural and real
But not for such as you and I, my love

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my ...
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can even feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my...


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I Know It's Over Lyrics as written by Johnny Marr Steven Morrissey

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    Maybe it's just me, but I always get an odd feeling that the speaker of this song is a young woman. First, it starts with some sort of a sentimental lament. She is feeling devastated and suicidal because her relationship is over. And then, we are told why. Her female lover is forced to marry a man she does not love - "sad veiled bride, please be happy". However, the speaker wishes the couple well and hopes that the future husband will treat her lover well. "She needs you more than she loves you" can mean that the lover is marrying the guy because she wants to be socially accepted, not because she really loves him.

    The speaker says that actually "over" is not exactly the right word, as to most people, their relationship has never existed. It was only a secret between the two women. This knowledge gets her even more depressed and she starts mocking herself for being such a loser. I think the whole "if you're clever..." lines are only her imagination that comes from her self-pity. Despite all her charming qualities, she is the one ending up alone, while some "loud, loutish" man gets the girl. The reason why I think that this song is about a lesbian relationship is in the final part: "It's so easy to laugh. It's so easy to hate. It takes strength to be gentle and kind." I feel that these lines suggest that their love is condemned by the society. It is a forbidden one.

    It is again emphasised in the conclusion of the song. "Love is natural and real, but not for you, my love. Not tonight, my love" contains an interesting paradox. "Love" in this context may mean a physical act of "love", as the wedding night is mentioned. Sex, which is supposed to be a natural product of love, will not feel natural here because there is no love between the married couple. On the other hand, the love between her and her lover, which although feels natural, is often deemed "unnatural" by the public. The speaker says that the notion of "love" is only reserved for the heterosexuals, not for the people like them - "not for such as you and I".

    There is a big chance that I get it all wrong, but to me, it makes sense.

    lazyheadon August 02, 2012   Link

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