Finding Me

I love this song!

"Im a sight for my sore eyes" gets to me a lot. we are all that weve got. This song reminds me of people that piss me off that think they know whats good for you but they dont only you do. so when I hear it thats what I think about..

This song means a LOT to me because I can relate to it completely. I think it's about a relationship that's falling apart. It perfectly describes a relationship I was in once. My boyfriend completely ignored me, he didn't even notice he was doing it, and he was always waiting on someone else, and making fun of me even but he never realized how much I was taking it to heart. "But you're coming back again... You don't mean to waste my time..." DESPITE what an ass the person's girlfriend is, he can't let go of the relationship, he doesn't really want to blame her and says it's not her fault, she doesn't mean it.

And then the chorus is what the person is feeling but can't say. They don't want this person to try to tell them what to do or explain things to them because she has absolutely no idea what's really going on with him. He is going through things that person can't relate to at all and is trying to find himself and doesn't need her help. This is "deeper than you get", the girlfriend/partner is happy and simple and doesn't understand this suffering or searchign or any of it.

Then the next verse... He's given up on it completely now, the person just doesn't get it. He just goes around talking to people now, and it doesn't really matter who. "So much for nothing, but nothing means so much", they're never seeing eachother, never talking, never doing anything, there's nothing. And this nothing means so much, it's horrible.

Then, again, she doens't pick up on what he's going through. She doesn't notice when he's trying to reach out and tell her but can't, she's just off having fun with other people. Talking to her is stupid, it's all been said before. Now, they're talking again, he's hearing something, but he wishes she'd just say more.... She's not on the same level as him. It's going off again, the relationship is falling apart. He's trying to just hold on, but she's going off in his mind, going down... it's got to end.

This song is word for word what my boyfriend Max was like. It's kinda shocking how much it describes it.

i absolutely agree with garbojen on how ppl think they know what's best for u. i hate ppl telling me what to do when they don't know what's good for me. fuck those ppl!

I agree with garbojen and narsil...

same. its such a frutrating feeling, and i think this song expresses that feeling really well

I love this song...in a way its cheery and makes you think of a day on the beach but then it could be depressing.

man this song describes me and my gf rt now and its just so perfectly articulated.

I think the gril in the relationship is trying to figure out what she wants. well,s he knows what she wants, but she cant do what hse wants. she confuses herself to the point where shes so lost nothing makes snese to her anymore. the guy tries to help her as much as he can, but its not going to do anygood until she can convince herself of the truth.

I think this song is about a guy who is in love with a shallow girl.... He is finding himself and she just goes on being shallow. He is capable of deep emotions and can respect them while she flitters around.... I like some suffering. She is careless with his feelings and has no clue about real love... waiting on sombody else agian... It fit perfectly with a girl I was foolish enough to fall for....