Quit acting so friendly.
Don't nod don't laugh all nicely.
Don't think you'll up-end me.
Don't sigh, don't sip your iced-tea.
And don't say, "It's been a while..."
And don't flash that stupid smile.

Don't ask me how I've been.

Don't think I've forgotten,
You never liked that necklace.
So cordial, so rotten...
Kiss, kiss, let's meet for breakfast.
Don't show up so on-time
And don't act like you're so kind

Don't ask me how I've been.

Don't sit there and play just
So frank, so straight, so candid,
So thoughtful, so gracious,
So sound, so even-handed.
Don't be so damn benign
And don't waste my fucking time.

Don't ask me how I've been.

Hey! Get over it!


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    this is my favorite ok go song. "Don't be so damn benign and don't waste my fucking time." that's the best part. i think its about overly nice ex's.... pretty straight forward.

    okgoon March 28, 2003   Link
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    This song is really fun. Definately one of my OK Go favs :)

    sunniebunzon May 10, 2003   Link
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    i love the humor this band gives off!!!! plus the lead vocalist is hot!!!

    penguintoeson June 20, 2003   Link
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    It's a song that one can definitely have a lot of fun listening to.

    CRYN_OUTon May 25, 2004   Link
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    fun can be had listening to it, and at the same time everyone knows what it's about and has been there before

    trueon November 12, 2004   Link
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    haha i love this song its so upbeat but at the same time the lyrics arent really too happy i love it its like a big fuck you to an ex.

    thedrakeman85on March 17, 2005   Link
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    yeah the lead vocalist = Damian. I love him. I met him not too long ago...and hes so awesome.

    aisha_08on August 05, 2005   Link
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    i love this song...i think it's about a guy who is just saying how it's the girls problem that she let him go

    punk-gurl22on March 03, 2006   Link
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    i think its him trying to get over a girl that he hates but its so hard for him cuz shes so incredible nice to him

    jujubee8on June 07, 2006   Link
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    i love this song sooo much. it's obviously about a girl who is cheating on him & she always acts as if he doesn't know, he's too dumb to know. blahblahblah. etcetcetc.

    i love ok go. they're my life. the end.

    halesterron October 25, 2006   Link

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