When you won't go along
Some will feel like you can't find your way
Heaven knows
Heaven knows I've seen it all before
Now don't get me wrong
I've seen many a life gone astray
When someone goes
All your bows won't make it any better so let it go

[Chorus]
Shut up and take it like a man
You need us to get a life
For your own good we'll take you by the hand
'Cause you need a little more

Maybe no one will say it
Maybe no one's aware it goes on
All I know
All I know it's like going off the deep end
Could you make a decision?
Could you think for yourself and go on?
Everyone knows
Everyone knows you've got to fit into the mainstream so save your woes

[Chorus]

Close your eyes
Look away now
Make believe while you can
So you'd best go along
Don't let on if you can't find your way
Many more
Many more do it for you
Because heaven knows
Heaven knows it's like playing with fire
Your life's a throw

[Chorus]


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Take It Like a Man Lyrics as written by Greg Kriesel Bryan Holland

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    I think this song is completely sarcastic.

    I mean... look at the band--they've never really felt the need to fit in the mainstream. To me, this song is about all those who lie to themselves about who they are, especially when coupled with the lines "don't let on if you can't find your way," "Close your eyes, look away now, make believe while you can." It is also, in turn, very cynical and condescending in tone as seen through lines such as, "for your own good we'll take you by the hand," which makes me think of a child being led across the street, or a crowded room. Not a very strong image, hence the point of the song.

    Blackbird_1565on March 10, 2007   Link

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