The song lyrics were written by the band Van Halen, as they were asked to write a song for the 1979 movie "Over the Edge" starring Matt Dillon. The movie (and the lyrics, although more obliquely) are about bored, rebellious youth with nothing better to do than get into trouble. If you see the movie, these lyrics will make more sense. It's a great movie if you grew up in the 70s/80s you'll definitely remember some of these characters from your own life. Fun fact, after writing the song, Van Halen decided not to let the movie use it.
While we're in love
We'll bleed each other dry
We'll hold each other close
We'll make each other cry
While we're in love
We'll get what we deserve
Until we lose our faith
Unit we lose our nerve
We know it won't last forever
'Cause we're not meant to be together
Make the best of a bad situation
Face the fear and the desperation
While we're in love
While we're in love
While we're in love
We'll drag ourselves around
We'll hold each other up
We'll tear each other down
We know it won't last forever
'Cause we're not meant to be together
Make the best of a bad situation
Face the fear and the desperation
While we're in love
While we're in love
We'll bleed each other dry
We'll hold each other close
We'll make each other cry
While we're in love
We'll get what we deserve
Until we lose our faith
Unit we lose our nerve
We know it won't last forever
'Cause we're not meant to be together
Make the best of a bad situation
Face the fear and the desperation
While we're in love
While we're in love
While we're in love
We'll drag ourselves around
We'll hold each other up
We'll tear each other down
We know it won't last forever
'Cause we're not meant to be together
Make the best of a bad situation
Face the fear and the desperation
While we're in love
While we're in love
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i read it as her telling a lover at the beginning of the relationship where everything is going. It's a destructive relationship "we know it won't last forever" or maybe a relationship they shouldn't be in "'cause we not meant to be together." Yet they're in love and can't help but fall for each other.
I like the first few lines which seem to say so much about love. it's a different angle on how love and relationships pan out, but still true for all it's negative qualities:
"While we're in love we'll bleed each other dry/We'll hold each other close/We'll make each other cry/While we're in love we'll get what we deserve until we lose our faith/until we lose our nerve. "
It's like saying, 'we'll love each other until we can't handle it anymore.' 'we'll love and care for each other, despite knowing that things may well end.
The lines: "While we're in love we'll get what we deserve/until we lose our faith/until we lose our nerve" speak to me. The idea that we can love someone to the point where we become scared of losing them, question whether we begin to lose ourselves in a relationship, or begin to question our own love for them, to the point where we find ourselves ending something out of fear.
this song seems to say to me all the fears and concerns that we have when we fall in love. in some ways she's probably also trying to reassure herself, or talk herself into going into this relationship in the first place.