How do you cool your lips after a summer's kiss?
How do you rid the sweat after the body bliss?
How do you turn your eyes from the romantic glare?
How do you block the sound
Of a voice you'd know anywhere?

Oh, I really should have known
By the time you drove me home
By the vagueness in your eyes, your casual goodbyes
By the chill in your embrace
The expression on your face, told me
Maybe, you might have some advice to give
On how to be insensitive, insensitive, ooh, insensitive

How do you numb your skin after the warmest touch?
How do you slow your blood after the body rush?
How do you free your soul after you've found a friend?
How do you teach your heart
It's a crime to fall in love again?

Oh, you probably won't remember me
It's probably ancient history
I'm one of the chosen few
Who went ahead and fell for you
I'm out of vogue, I'm out of touch
I fell too fast I feel too much
I thought that you might have some advice to give
On how to be insensitive

Oh, I really should have known
By the time you drove me home
By the vagueness in your eyes, your casual goodbyes
By the chill in your embrace
The expression on your face that told me
Maybe, you might have some advice to give
On how to be insensitive (how to be)
Insensitive (how to be)
Insensitive (how to be)


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    good good song

    honestyormysteryon April 25, 2002   Link
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    Sad and Amazing song. Everytime I hear it I think how beautiful a song! To me its about a woman who finally falls in love again or has this amazing time with a guy who acts like he doesn't care about her or has so many other woman that she just "one of the chosen"

    Just_a_minor_thingon July 26, 2002   Link
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    dr...this was you...i would have given everything, your voice was all i could hear.....we're past all that, you probably dont even remember...i was one of the chosen few who went ahead and fell for you....goodbye dan...

    jesusmyheartadoresuon August 07, 2002   Link
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    this song is so great.

    it makes me sad

    jimmysavedmydayon August 07, 2002   Link
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    its not about a guy. its about a girl

    wildberryon September 25, 2002   Link
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    This song is actually about a girl who is still madly in love with a guy who broke her heart, and how he did it. And now she cannot keep him off her mind.

    hockey_gurlon October 07, 2002   Link
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    This is the ultimate breakup song. I've been in that place so many times. Reminds me of all of my exes and brings tears to my eyes. I still love this song some much though.

    bandaidwackeron April 10, 2003   Link
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    i love this song, it's simple and to the point but still holds up. great :)

    so past envyon July 07, 2003   Link
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    "you probably don't remember, its probably ancient history, i'm one of the chosen few who went ahead and fell for you"

    ....beautiful, yet sad....

    brightestfireflyon November 25, 2004   Link
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    awesome song

    brightestfireflyon June 24, 2005   Link

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