My friend, my friend he's got a knife
A statement from his former life
When he was easy but alone
Beside him was an empty throne
But what of silver silken blade
Affix his gaze, his features staid
Grasps the handle, clips the cable
One steps up, sits at his table
My friend, my friend, he's got a knife
My friend, my friend, he's got a wife

My friend, my friend, the clever ruse
Persuasion through his thoughts peruse
A hidden relic from his past
That wasn't there when he looked last
He feels it ticking like a bomb
Feeding fear, assaulting calm
Takes the object, starts the game
Moves closer to the flame

My friend, my friend, the clever ruse
My friend, my friend, he lights the fuse

My friend, my friend, he's got a knife
My friend, my friend, he's got a knife
My friend, my friend, he's got a knife


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My Friend, My Friend Lyrics as written by Tom Marshall Ernest Anastasio

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    My Interpretation

    I think this song is about being tempted when you're married.

    "My friend, my friend he's got a knife, a statement from his former life When he was easy but alone beside him was an empty throne"

    He's a married guy, and the knife represents his past when he was still single. It's a statement of his former life when he had no "queen," no wife to sit beside him.

    "But what of silver silken blade, affix his gaze, his features staid Grasps the handle, clips the cable, one steps up, sits at his table"

    So he's married, but ah, he's still got this knife that reminds him of being single. He's getting ready to cheat, so he "clips the cable" connecting to his wife, and almost immediately, "one sits at his table" which is a woman looking to fool around with him.

    "My friend, my friend, he's got a knife My friend, my friend, he's got a wife"

    Trying to balance the scales, with his wife on one side, and the knife representing his independence and "lost" freedom on the other side.

    "My friend, my friend, the clever ruse, persuasion through his thoughts peruse" He's thinking of ways to persuade the new girl into bed with him.

    "A hidden relic from his past that wasn't there when he looked last" The girl is someone he used to know, or date, or sleep with. He's starting there, even though he really did try to put her out of his mind when he got married.

    "He feels it ticking like a bomb, feeding fear, assaulting calm" Now that he has basically committed himself to stepping out on his wife, it's giving him panic attacks. He knows he's about to do something wrong.

    "Takes the object, starts the game, moves it closer to the flame" The Object is the woman he's trying to bed, because he doesn't really care about here. She's just an object to him. "Starting the game" means he's started trying to woo her, and "moves it closer to the flame" refers to him escalating things with her, pushing her as good as he can to get her into bed.

    "My friend, my friend, the clever ruse My friend, my friend, he lights the fuse" Every cheater has a ruse they tell their spouses to make it easier to cheat. His is particularly clever, and so he "lights the fuse," he sleeps with the other woman, knowing that it is basically inevitable that his wife will find out. When fuses burn out, a loud BOOM usually follows. That boom will be the sound of his marriage exploding.

    Just my take. I didn't research to find out if the lyricist has actually said what it means.

    MetalHeadSJon September 07, 2017   Link

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