You, you've been looking at me just a little too long, now I can never look the same
Blindness and kindness, there's no difference in the two when I can no longer
See the good in you

So won't you show me a little shame
Won't you show me a little shame

Now 'cause I'm, I'm a gentleman, lookin' for a gentlewomen, so-called ladies
Keep breakin my heart
Show me a house, show me a home, show me how it could all fall apart

So won't you show me a little shame
Won't you show me a little shame
Won't you show me a little shame

Cause now I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through crying and I'm sadder then before I wept
I get through thinking and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speaking and I can't remember not a word that I said

You change your mind so many times, I wonder if you have a mind at all
And I'd rather be by myself than to have your lonesome company come to call

So won't you show me a little shame
Won't you show me a little shame
Won't you show me a little shame


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    this song is kickass. i just love the way he sounds when he sings it and the lyrics are awesome. terrific song

    flirtatiouschick86on July 21, 2002   Link
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    General Comment

    This song makes me think of the proverbial "one that got away" When I hear this song, I get filled with self-recrmination. I was wrong, but never said so to him.

    xinniefulon February 01, 2005   Link
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    General Comment

    i want this song played at my funeral...it makes me happy

    *may*on June 26, 2007   Link
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    General Comment

    it reminds me of a relationship which ends because the girl doesn't love him anymore and he askes himself : "does she have any shame for quitting the relationship. because he is the best for her and she doesn't see it"

    oldenemyon June 09, 2008   Link
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    i love this song, so very much. everyone word just touches me dearly.

    sheenakon September 12, 2010   Link

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