Where am I? Where are you?
There's so much time so little to do
We're busy doing nothing cause it's vanity we prize
You can't see nothing cause you can't see through your eyes
They're covered with a film, you're blinded by yourself
You're the one to blame but you pretend it's someone else

Life could you be a little softer to me
Life could you be more gentle to me
Softer, softer, softer
Softer to me

I'm still alive, that much is true
I've never lied, well, I guess I've told a few
There's nothing to see because I brought nothing to show
The conversation got too deep, I shrug and tell you I don't know
This world can get so hard, this world can be so cruel
Sometimes I fall apart I feel just like a useless tool

Life could you be a little softer to me
Life could you be a more gentle to me
Yeah I know, this is a selfish plea
Because Christ sacrificed his flesh
On the cross for me

But this world is hard, it's cruel and I wish it could be
Softer, softer, softer
Softer to me

(Softer to me)


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Softer to Me Lyrics as written by Matthew Arnold Thiessen

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    It takes a lot more talent to put in religous beliefs into a song then to just come up with any old radio song. I mean what takes more talent writing this song or "in the car I just can't wait to pick you up on our very first date...." We (Christians) actually have a motive to write, Jesus, but Blink182 there motive is to get money. Also Just because a band mentions Jesus in their songs doesn't mean they suck. And nor just because a band is christian does that mea nthey suck. Many Bands are Christian (i.e. Creed, & MxPX, just to name a few) that are popular.

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