Cheated and lied, broken so bad
You made a vow, never get mad
You played the game, though it's unfair
They're all the same, who can compare?
First you lose trust, then you get worried
Night after night, bar after club
Dropping like flies, who woke you up?
On the front lawn, sprinklers turn on
It's not your house, where'd you go wrong?
First you get hurt, then you feel sorry

Flying like a cannonball, falling to the earth
Heavy as a feather when you hit the dirt
How am I the lucky one
I do not deserve to wait around forever when you were there first

First you get hurt, then you feel sorry
There comes a time in a short life
Turn it around, get a rewrite
Call it a dark night of the soul
Ticking of clocks, gravity's pull
First you get close, then you get worried

Flying like a cannonball, falling to the earth
Heavy as a feather when you hit the dirt
How am I the lucky one, I do not deserve
To wait around forever when you were there first
First you get hurt, then you feel sorry

You're growing silent, the silent treatment
It's not inviting now, but don't deny what you meant
You get excited, you get excited
You got a feeling, oh, at least you can pretend
You wanna light it, you wanna light it
You wanna light it now, the candle from both ends
You get excited, you get excited

Flying like a cannonball, falling to the earth
Heavy as a feather when you hit the dirt
How am I the lucky one?
I do not deserve to wait around forever when you were there first
Flying like a cannonball, falling to the earth
Heavy as a feather when, you hit the dirt
How am I the lucky one?
I do not deserve to wait around forever when you were there first

First you get close, then you get worried
First you get close, then you get worried
First you get close, then you get worried
First you get close, then you get worried

You wanna light it, you wanna light it
You wanna light it now, the candle from both ends
You wanna light it, you wanna light it
You wanna light it now, the candle from both ends


Lyrics submitted by rdevault, edited by MisterDangles

First Lyrics as written by Matthew Maust Dann Gallucci

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    My Interpretation

    Along with the lead singer looking so defeated in the music video (and he's not even the main character) the lyrics suggest to me someone who got burned in relationships and feels like just giving up.

    Cheated and lied, broken so bad You made a vow, never get mad You play the game, though it's unfair They're all the same, who can compare? First you lose trust, then you get worried

    Making a vow to never get mad at your partner is unrealistic and unfair. Maybe the partner cheated on him and is coming back saying to him "you said you'd never get mad." They're all the same - people, males, females - so who's to say you're better off with someone else or not? Obviously once you start to lose trust in someone, then those worrying feeling come up.

    Night after night, bar after club Dropping like flies, who woke you up? On the front lawn, sprinklers turn on It’s not your house, where’d you go wrong? First you get hurt, then you feel sorry

    Going out again after the breakup trying to find someone new, but the video and the lyrics suggest that the person is drinking excessively to kill his pain rather than actually meet someone new. Dropping like flies, passing out from drinking. After you get hurt, then you feel sorry for yourself or sorry for the choices you made (i.e. dating that person.)

    Flying like a cannonball, falling to the earth Heavy as a feather when, you hit the dirt How am I the lucky one?, I do not deserve To wait around forever when, you were there first First you get hurt, then you feel sorry

    Flying like a cannonball is a sarcastic and self-effacing statement. Heavy as a feather could mean that once you crash, you are dead or unconscious, and so don't feel any weight (or anything) - light as a feather. How am I the lucky one? sounds like a retort to the other person saying to him "You're lucky that..." "You were there first" could mean a number of things. It could even be talking to God, saying how is it fair that I have to wait forever for a partner, when you're the eternal being in this conversation, not me?

    There comes a time in a short life Turn it around, get a rewrite Call it a dark night of the soul Ticking of clocks, gravity’s pull First you get close, then you get worried

    The protagonist is reflecting on his "dark night of the soul" after the break up and realizing that this is his time to turn it around, and also that he is mortal (ticking of clocks, gravity's pull) and closer to death. First you get close, then you get worried seems to mean that once you get close to achieving a goal (or being in a relationship with that person you found) the more you worry about it going right or whether it is the right choice.

    You’re going silent, the silent treatment It’s not inviting now, don’t deny what you meant You get excited, you get excited You got a feeling, oh, at least you can pretend You wanna light it, you wanna light it You wanna light it now, the candle from both ends

    The silent treatment of someone going away when a relationship ends. The cry of "don't deny what you meant" towards someone who once said "I love you" but now is walking away. "You get excited" at the prospect of something new, but once you've been burned a few times that excitement isn't as genuine, so "at least you can pretend." Lighting the candle at both ends means trying to do too much, literally burning candles to stay up late and wake up early. It could mean staying up late to go out to the bars/clubs to find a new partner, or it could mean that once you find a new partner, you're so excited that you want to spend too much time with them. In either case, the result is eventually a burnout.

    superman9kon November 23, 2015   Link

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