Black flies on the windowsill
That we are
That we are
That we are to know
Winter stole summer's thrill
And the river's cracked and cold

See the sky is no man's land
A darkened plume to stay
Hope here needs a humble hand
Not a fox found in your place

And no man is an island, this I know
But can't you see? Oh
Maybe you were the ocean when I was just a stone

Black flies on the windowsill
That we are
That we are
That we are to hold
Comfort came against my will
And every story must grow old

Still, I'll be a traveler
A gypsy's reins to face
But the road is wearier
With that fool found in your place

And no man is an island, this I know
But can't you see? Oh
Maybe you were the ocean when I was just a stone

No man is an island, this I know
But can't you see?
Maybe you were the ocean when I was just a stone

So here we are

And I don't wanna beg your pardon
And I don't wanna ask you why
But if I was to go my own way
Would I have to pass you by?

Oh, I don't wanna beg your pardon
And I don't wanna ask you why
But if I was to go my own way
Would I have to pass you by?


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Black Flies Lyrics as written by Benjamin John Howard

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    maybe when the other one was the ocean means that he/she was wiser at that moment or perfectly ripe for what the relationship was about and Ben was not. But no man is an island. The island stands out of the ocean at all times. He is maybe saying that nobody understands everything and is above everybody. We take turns being the stone ( gets eroded by the ocean/getting hurt by another) or the ocean ( hurting others) .

    jamie52360on March 21, 2015   Link

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