Extend my hand for one more drink
I'll let it slide

I haven't touched the surface yet
It was too close for me, I caved

Now hold me 'til you fall asleep,
Not making it easy, no
We're holding secrets underneath
Not making it easy, no

The flowers never grow
I think I'll pick forever, this time
Well, I guess I'm giving up again
I guess it's fair, I guess it's fair, I guess it's fair
I just don't...

Ration time and wait for sleep
One will reflect, one will defeat
Imagine me at seventeen
Depressed and thin, homecoming queen

And you will always cross my mind
Not making it easy, no
And you could leave at any time
Not making it easy, not easy

The flowers never grow
I think I'll pick forever, this time
Well, I guess I'm giving up again
I guess it's fair, I guess it's fair, I guess it's fair
I just don't care

We dissonant promises, leave me alone
Wishful thinking was hopeless
Help us find our way home
And you asked me if I've been there
Have I been there?
I want to take you along
This I know, I want to live forever this time
Well, I guess I'm giving up again
I guess it's fair, I guess it's fair, I guess it's fair
I just don't care

My heart, I wanna live forever
Well, I'd love to see your face again
I love you still, I love you still, I love you still
I love you


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    This song (and band really) reminds me of an almost romance with a guy @ 17. Our timing is always off and we hurt one another off and on, yet beneath it all, there are genuine feelings present.

    In the song she constantly sings of cyclic emotions dealing with wanting/the past/and painful/bittersweet emotions that almost inhibit her from moving on.

    "Extend my hand for one more drink" - Literal alcohol addiction, crutch or metaphor for going to that buried emotional "place" that brings heartache.

    "I haven't touched the surface yet it was too close for me, I caved" - meaning she hasn't confronted full on her real (scary) feelings for him and backs away before she goes over that all consuming cliff.

    "The flowers never grow I think I'll pick forever, this time Well, I guess I'm giving up again I guess it's fair, I guess it's fair, I guess it's fair I just don't..." Because of timing, their naivete and life their chance never came. Love never fully bloomed and that realization hurts. She gave up on him once and reflects that this is reality where she will always wonder "what if" things had turned out differently. She understands and accepts that the pain of constantly wondering what if is a trade off for the wrong she did to him. She loves someone still after parting ways and is trying to cope with such.

    ToaD18on December 25, 2012   Link

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