My oh my, you're so good looking
Hold yourself together like a pair of bookends
But I've not tasted all your cooking
Who are you when I'm not looking?

Do you pour a little something on the rocks?
Slide down the hallway in your socks?
When you undress, do you leave a path?
Then sink to your nose in a bubble bath?

My oh my, you're so good looking
Hold yourself together like a pair of bookends
But I've not tasted all your cooking
Who are you when I'm not looking?

I wanna know
I wanna know
I wanna know (When I'm not looking)

Do you break things when you get mad?
Eat a box of chocolates 'cause you're feelin' bad?
Do you paint your toes 'cause you bite your nails?
Call up momma when all else fails?

Who are you when I'm not around?
When the door is locked and the shades are down?
Do you listen to your music quietly?
And when it feels just right, are you thinkin' of me?

I wanna know
I wanna know
I wanna know (When I'm not looking)

My oh my, you're so good looking
But who are you when I'm not looking?


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Who Are You When I'm Not Looking Lyrics as written by John Wiggins Earl "bud" Lee

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    I believe this song is about how women tend to keep things inside (hence the bookend reference) and when nobody is around they let loose and may have a side that they keep hidden from their significant other because of emotional reasons. The song is suggesting that he would like her to open up that side up to him more often, but has not yet discovered a way to remove those emotional "bookends" (that he perhaps gets a small glimpse of at times) without making her feel too vulnerable.

    cupcakesquisheron May 05, 2011   Link

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