Here we go again
Another night of being bummed
I'll keep to myself, avoid the sun
And cancel plans with everyone I know
'Cause it's just how it always ends
Our bond will break 'cause you can't relate
To anyone, to anything at all

You brought your worst, and I'm right here (right here)
No, I've seen it all
And it's never been so clear

You're not the person that I knew back then (back then)
It's all too late to set things straight, 'cause everything has been
You're not the person that I knew back then
Let's try and act like this didn't happen
Follow your friends like you ever had them

You still know me
Still not cut out for this sort of thing
Never wanted to be caught in between
I need constant reminders of everything
(So what?) It's who I am
I played it off so well
I just hold it in no matter how I've been
So nobody, nobody can tell

You brought your worst, and I'm right here (right here)
No, I've seen it all
And it's never been so clear

You're not the person that I knew back then (back then)
It's all too late to set things straight, 'cause everything has been
You're not the person that I knew back then
Let's try and act like this didn't happen
Follow your friends like you ever had them

I won't sleep 'til the break of dawn (break of dawn)
Can't let our problems find me here
So everybody, come on

You brought your worst, and I'm right here
No, I've seen it all
And it's never been so clear

You're not the person that I knew back then (back then)
It's all too late to set things straight, 'cause everything has been
You're not the person that I knew back then
Let's try and act like this didn't happen
Follow your friends like you ever had them

(You're not the person that I knew back then)
(It's all too late to set things straight, 'cause everything has been)
(You're not the person that I knew back then)
(Let's try and act like this didn't happen)
(Follow your friends like you ever had them)


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It's Complicated Lyrics as written by Jeremy Wade Mckinnon Alexander Thomas Shelnutt

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    My Interpretation

    I think that instead of being about a relationship, this song could be about a friendship that died away.

    Like, you two have been friends for practically forever, but then that person starts to change and you can't stand their company anymore. Then the friendship starts to crumble, and you two eventually break it off completely.

    Does that make sense?

    kballkdballon April 15, 2012   Link

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