You let me into your life on a whim
And there was magic and fire in the night
In loving I was just a little boy
I made mistakes that caused you so much pain
All I know is that I'm older now

Some people think that it's best to refrain
From the conventions of old-fashioned love
Their hearts are filled with holes and emptiness
They tell themselves that they're too young to settle down
Girl I promise that I'm older now

And this has been hard enough on you
I know it's been hard enough on me
Been telling myself that I can roll with the changes

And when the water gets high above your head
Darling don't you see,
While this has been hard enough on you
It's been hard enough on me

I wasn't looking when we built these walls
Let me spread my dreams at your feet
Let's not let time's bitter flood rise
Before my thoughts begin to run
I think I'm getting older now

And this has been hard enough on you
I know it's been hard enough on me
Been telling myself that I can roll with the changes

And when the water gets high above your head
Darling don't you see,
While this has been hard enough on you
It's been hard enough on me

Can't stand the thought of another, talking to you sweet my dear
Where would I be tonight if you hadn't held me here, in your arms?

And this has been hard enough on you
I know it's been hard enough on me
Been telling myself that I can roll with the changes

And when the water gets high above your head
Darling don't you see,
While this has been hard enough on you
It's been hard enough on me


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Hard Enough Lyrics as written by Brandon Flowers Benjamin Lysaght

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    I am not sure that this song means anything about marriage, I personally took it as a letter to an ex. Might help that I am in a similar situation but i think of a younger guy that has just broken up with his girlfriend. really messed it up, "I made mistakes that caused you so much pain". But since then has grown up, didn't understand what love was when he entered the relationship. "All I know is that I'm older now". What she might not understand that even though he made the big mistakes and she did the breaking up it has been extremely hard on him as well. Even though she might think that she possesses the only reason to be sad. "While this has been hard enough on you It's been hard enough on me". I think that the guy has a new understanding of life not right or wrong but merely experiences, interpreted however the individual feels is correct. "Where would I be tonight if you hadn't held me here, in your arms?" Meaning that he is thankful for the time that he was able to spend with her. And that it has shaped who he is today. The guy always has doubts though as evidenced, by "Been telling myself that I can roll with the changes". I could definitely be wrong, but the best part about lyrics or any written word is that once the author writes it he no longer owns the work, the people who read it make their own meaning of it.

    chris24on January 07, 2011   Link

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