I woke up, decided I'd find my way around this town
Foolish girl, thought I'd be so lost without him
Adolescence left to wither, I didn't have a choice
It was me or a silly boy, it was me or a silly boy

Why do I
Justify
What you did wrong
To me?

You're love drunk, you're blinded
You've lost the ones who love you most
This liar's on fire, melted like wax
A mess it grows
And you're the one that chose him
That's just how karma goes

Why do I
Justify
What you did wrong
To me?

Look at me now
Look at me now
(Look at me now . . .)
Take a look at what I've become
Don't thank yourself I'm finally someone now
Look at me now
You raised me well I'll give you that
But in my face you surely spat
Would you look at me now?

Why? Oh I . . .

Why do I
Justify
What you did wrong
To me?

I'm all right
And I'm alive
And I'm just fine without you
Without you


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    My Interpretation

    This is going to be really off topic for what the overall theme of the song is actually about (i.e. A mother neglecting her child and choosing a man over the protection and love for her child etc.) But it's something that I always felt when listening to this song.

    A while ago I was sexually assaulted (for lack of a better word) by someone that I loved and regarded as a father figure to me. And He is We is one of my favorite artists, I listen to them a lot. While listening to this song in particular I heard the line "Why do I justify what you did wrong to me?" and it really just hit me and brought me back to that night everything happened.

    I was so easy to forgive him and I actually tried to placate him and make him feel better about what he did TO ME. It was insane. I just didn't want to believe how much it actually affected me. A mess it grows, really.

    ohhhkennethon October 27, 2014   Link

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