If I stay, I know I'm that I'ma share your love and that I couldn't take.
And if I go, we'll be apart and I know my heart would surely break.
So, what difference does it make, which one I choose?
Either way I lose.

Though I know, my love is true.
I'd die if you ever told me good-bye.
Ever told me good-bye.
And I know, she loves you too.
She would do, the same as I.

What difference does it make, which one I choose?
Either way I lose.
Either way I lose.
Either way I lose.


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Either Way I Lose Lyrics as written by Van Mc Coy

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    I love the recording I have of this song. The male back-up singers with that "bum. bum. bum. bumbumbum bum. bum. bum. bumbumbum" bass line, the palpable emotion with which Nina sings, the crescendo on "the very same as I." Ugh, so good. What a shitty situation to be in though, lyrically. It's about trying to love a philanderer - keeping her hanging on with his charms, and simultaneously gallivanting about town with other women he's treating just as superficially nicely.

    nervousnellieon December 31, 2009   Link

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