"Beim ersten Mal tut's immer Weh" as written by and -/flux Crap....
Sei ein letztes Mal ein kleines bisschen nett zu mir
Sei doch nett zu mir und setz dich endlich her zu mir
Sei ein letztes Mal ein kleines bisschen nett zu mir
Noch ein letztes Mal

Lass mich bitte nur ein kleines bisschen
Schenk mir bitte noch ein letztes Küsschen
Lass mich bitte nur ein kleines bisschen
Täusch mich bitte noch ein letztes Mal

Beim ersten Mal tuts immer weh
Doch heute Nacht wirst du schon sehn
Beim letzten Mal schmerzt es noch mehr
Noch ein letztes Mal
Beim ersten Mal tuts immer weh
Doch heute Nacht wirst du schon sehn
Beim letzten Mal schmerzt es noch mehr
Noch ein letztes Mal

Sei ein letztes Mal ein kleines bisschen nett zu mir
Sei doch nett zu mir und setz dich endlich her zu mir
Sei ein letztes Mal ein kleines bisschen nett zu mir
Noch ein letztes Mal

Ich erinner mich an dein Versprechen
Deine Lügen werden sich noch rächen
Ich erinner mich an dein Versprechen
Heut verlierst du mich zum letzten Mal

Beim ersten Mal tuts immer weh
Doch heute Nacht wirst du schon sehn
Beim letzten Mal schmerzt es noch mehr
Noch ein letztes Mal
Beim ersten Mal tuts immer weh
Doch heute Nacht wirst du schon sehn
Beim letzten Mal schmerzt es noch mehr
Noch ein letztes Mal

Noch ein letztes Mal

Beim ersten Mal tuts immer weh
Doch heute Nacht wirst du schon sehn
Beim letzten Mal schmerzt es noch mehr
Noch ein letztes Mal
Beim ersten Mal tuts immer weh
Doch heute Nacht wirst du schon sehn
Beim letzten Mal schmerzt es noch mehr


Warum willst du mich nicht mehr


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    General CommentUhm... I'm very shocked by some of these comments...
    The video in fact IS about a pedophile person who solicites the girl. She is ok with meeting him but and then torments him. In germany the law says you are not allowed to have sex with ANYBODY under 15 if you are an adult. Until 18 its only allowed when the parents have no good reason to tell their children not to do it and of course if the younger one is ok with it. The girl was made 15 in order to make her not too young (though anything above 10 would be taken by most pedophiles) while still making it illegal.
    Its NOT supposed to tell you to be carefull who you are talking to on the net.
    Joschyon November 07, 2011   Link
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    General CommentThe band said it's based off the movie "Hard Candy" I've never seen it, but it sounds creepy, just like the vid.
    jessebeale1on December 30, 2011   Link
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    General CommentJust one last time, be a little nicer to me
    Just be nice to me and sit here right infront of me
    Just one last time, be a little nicer to me
    Just one last time

    Please just give a little bit
    Please give me just one last kissy
    Please just give me a little bit
    Please change me just on last time

    The first time always hurts
    But tonight you will surely see
    The last time hurts even more
    Just one last time
    The first time always hurts
    But tonight you will surely see
    The last time hurts even more
    Just one last time

    Just one last time, be a little nicer to me
    Just be nice to me and sit here right infront of me
    Just one last time, be a little nicer to me
    Just one last time

    I remember your promises
    Your lies will be your own undoing
    I remember your promises
    Today you lose me for the last time

    The first time always hurts
    But tonight you will surely see
    The last time hurts even more
    Just one last time
    The first time always hurts
    But tonight you will surely see
    The last time hurts even more
    Just one last time

    Just one last time

    The first time always hurts
    But tonight you will surely see
    The last time hurts even more
    Just one last time
    The first time always hurts
    But tonight you will surely see
    The last time hurts even more
    Just one last time

    The video shows a guy talking with a 15 year old girl online setting up to meet with her for erotic activities. They go somewhere together and the girl starts doing a lap dance for him, but suddenly knocks him out. He comes to tied up to the chair he was sitting in with the girl tormenting him with a knife. After that, she brings some surgical equipment over and removes his testicals and waves them infront of his face. She puts them in a glass, supposedly filled with a perservative fluid. The video ends with her talking to someone else online, apparently getting herself another victim.

    Most people think the video is about pedophiles who solicite children online, but I believe the age of consent in Germany is 15, so it may just be warning about people you meet online. I could be wrong though, the video does make the girl out to be a child early on with a stuffed bunny (which she cuts up while tormenting him) and 'Little red riding hood' for her screenname.
    ShadowSoulon August 04, 2008   Link
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    General CommentTo me the song seems like its telling you to beware because people aren't who they always appear to be. You could end up being the victim in some cruel game. Honestly, i think games were played in a past relationship. Fell for someone he thought he knew and it was just a mask, a front put up to lure him in and once he got in good that she could control him how she wanted "has him by the balls" which would make her cutting his balls out and holding them make perfect sense. I've had the bad girlfriend that did the whole mask and then flip personalities on me. its not fun. its telling you to becareful, dont let it happen to you.
    sgtsledgeon September 14, 2008   Link
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    General CommentI'll agree with the points of the two previous points.

    But, I do want to point out something that I saw.

    Several years ago, the story of Arwin Mewes, the cannibal from Germany came to light. Rammstein made the song "Mein Teil" from that story, and in this case I think some of the lyrical content that Oomph! wrote was based from that. But, it does have an obvious point to pedophiles and their young victims. Since I'm a guy, this video does make me cringe a little, but the girl in the video deffly gets her revenge, or whatever you want to call it.
    CanadianLaughson October 13, 2008   Link
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    General CommentThe song is based on the movie "Hard Candy." Or the video is a least; the lyrics are pretty vague, though it's extremely obvious that it's about causing pain to someone.

    Very good song, though, and a pretty good movie as well.
    Wurfelon October 15, 2008   Link
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    General CommentYes, the music video is based on Hard Candy -- they say that in the "making of" (I recommend it anyway, Dero's cool and has a great sense of humor ^^) video.

    Personally, I think the song can be very general, along the lines of what sgtsledge said. But it also fits well with the anti-pedo vid.. especially hearing "Noch heute Nacht wirst du schon sehn,
    Beim letzten Mal schmerzt es noch mehr..." while the girl is mangling his bits and pieces.. :P Makes me cringe too, but it's still cleverly done.

    And on a side note, I think they made her say 15 in the video just so it wouldn't be -too- shocking. Wouldn't be as well received if they used the same girl as the "Labyrinth" video, for example. This way, with this actress, it makes the point while still looking good.
    amnesiaclyricon October 21, 2008   Link
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    General CommentWoops, doch* not noch :) As ShadowSoul translated (very well, thanks for posting it!): "But tonight you will surely see: The last time hurts even more!"
    amnesiaclyricon October 21, 2008   Link
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    General CommentDid anyone except me notice that the pedophile's handle is fritzl69? As in Josef Fritzl?
    KommunistJesuson March 26, 2009   Link
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    General CommentIt's a fairly vague song but I am pretty sure that the song itself has nothing to do with pedophiles. Just the video. I think the song is about a relationship that seemed like it was working or would have worked well. However, one of them ended up getting heart-broken and the other continued to tease him letting him believe that they could be together again but it's obvious to everyone else that it's not going to work. I'm not sure if my feelings have caused this interpretation or not but it seems that it could have been a warning to people like me not to let it happen.
    TillGoion April 03, 2013   Link

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