And this is not pretend
Or you have no reason to feel secure
'Cause this world, it waits for no one
So don't you fool yourself
Get out of this imaginary place you call
Reality, it's so deceiving

(Condescending)
If you don't get it your way
You're so condescending (unforgiving)
If we don't do what you say
You're so unforgiving

So tell me once again
How easy it would be if we'd listened
But to you, you're just paying attention
So what's the point in you
Showing us your way if we don't even care
To be 'round you, or even know you?

(Condescending)
If you don't get it your way
You're so condescending (unforgiving)
If we don't do what you say
You're so unforgiving

(Condescending)
If you don't get it your way
You're so condescending (unforgiving)
If we don't do what you say
You're so unforgiving

I can't, I can't do what you say
I can't, I can't do it your way
I can't, I can't do what you say
I can't, I can't do it your way
I can't, I can't do what you say
I can't, I can't do it your way

I can't, I can't do what you say
I can't, I can't do it your way
I can't, I can't do what you say
I can't, I can't do it your way

(Condescending)
If you don't get it your way
You're so condescending (unforgiving)
If we don't do what you say
You're so unforgiving

(Condescending)
If you don't get it your way
You're so condescending (unforgiving)
If we don't do what you say
You're so unforgiving

You're patronizing
And overbearing
And you're so unbending
You don't understand me
You don't understand me


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Condescending [2022 Remix Remaster] Lyrics as written by Mark Renk Marcos Curiel

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    My Interpretation

    This song really bothered me, it took from the first time I heard it until just a few days ago to figure out what I thought it meant. I'm pretty sure now that this is a song about/to "Christians" that come across as condescending to the people that they are preaching to. Unfortunatly, this happens a lot, (and probably always has). It's the same pharisiacial mindset that Jesus hammerd during his public ministry. It's the "I'm sorry - I can't hear what you are saying because your actions are speaking so loudly".

    Anyway - I think this is what it's about - curious that I'm the first person to post on this song since it's been out for over a year or so....

    hisunderdogon February 15, 2009   Link

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