Slumped up against the sink
Hair plastered to her cheeks
Marduk t-shirt sticking to her skin
Refugee from a disco in old east Berlin

weightless formless blameless nameless

Stray syllables were gurgling
From her throat one at a time
Face hidden from my view
I let myself imagine she was you

Only weightless, formless, blameless, nameless

And when I washed my hands
I ran the water hotter than I could stand
Half rising to a crouch
Sinking back down to the floor
when you’re walking keep your head low
Try to leave no traces when you go

Stay weightless, formless, blameless, nameless


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Marduk T-Shirt Men's Room Incident song meanings
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  • +3
    General Comment

    what's this girl doing in the men's room in the first place is what I want to know

    bcontraton November 11, 2009   Link
  • +3
    General Comment

    I think I see this as more of rape than simply cheating on his lover... She's extremely drunk or something of the sort, passed out against the wall of the men's room (possible implication that he's not the first one who's had this idea..?)... It reminds me of the movie Kids.

    hellobattlefieldon June 21, 2011   Link
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    My Interpretation

    East Berlin, he's a long way from home. He sees this unfortunate girl. No-one pays any attention to her but he is able to summon up some empathy by imagining its someone he loves. I think it's about how people's troubles lack impact on us (are weightless and formless) until we make the effort to empathise. Washing his hands with hot water is another sensitising action. I believe that with this empathy he is beginning to forgive the woman back home who, after all, is not blameless. Just a humble opinion.

    mosebokenon June 03, 2013   Link
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    General Comment

    I don't think he is washing his hands in scalding water because he thinks the girl is disgusting. He just let himself imagine that this completely drunk and vulnerable woman that he knows nothing about is his lover... he imagines for a moment being intimate with her cuz she means nothing to him (wieghtless, formless, blameless, nameless) and he feels guilty. Which might be what captainmycaptain meant, too. Anyway... I think this is just one of the most touching and haunting songs on the album. Oh, and one correction... The line is in your walking...

    songyoneon May 29, 2008   Link
  • +2
    My Interpretation

    It seems pretty simple to me. The narrator goes into the mensroom and sees a young woman, either very drunk or drugged, leaning against the wall. There's an implication that she's been sexually assaulted but he doesn't make this explicit. He feels compassion for her and imagines how it would feel if she were the partner to whom he's addressing the song. He washes his hands in very hot water because whatever it was that happened to her makes him feel dirty. I don't see that he's saying she's dirty or disgusting...after all he makes it very clear that he considers her blameless.

    Oddly, I found it rather a beautiful song. it may have been the melody, or his attitude, or both.

    Seranvalion July 13, 2015   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    ouch

    bestwombat11on February 19, 2008   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    Especially the part about washing his hands / running the water hotter than he could stand. It's like... you just feel sort of... dirty after you do something like that, right? But it's a feeling that you can't wash off.

    captainmycaptainon February 23, 2008   Link
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    john darnielle and jeffery lewis made a comic explaining each song on the new album, you can look at it here:

    thejeffreylewissite.com/Mt-Goats-Press-Kit-08.html

    Sunset Rubdownon March 09, 2008   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    The line "I let myself imagine she was you" is the most haunting bit in the entire song, for me.

    ThePythonon March 10, 2008   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    This is not a song about cheating. It's a song about missing someone, and how impossible it is to forget about them, no matter what you do.

    soicaton April 24, 2012   Link

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