"For all the joy Thy child shall bring, The risk of grief we'll run.

To all Parents"

You're born, raised and then torn down,
to look a little more like, everyone you meet,
And everyday that goes by,
you look a little less like who you used to be.

I don't mind the people staring,
'cause I know they never see me anyway,
In these days, all the worlds the stage,
and everyone just wants to be the star.

"we'll love him while we may"

This is all too heavy,
If you believe in your self,
But no one can hurt you without your consent,
and I am not giving in.
I'm not giving in
and I'm not giving in

I don't mind the people staring,
'cause I know they never see me anyway,
And everyday that goes by,
you look a little less like who you used to be.

I don't mind the people staring,
'cause I know they never see me anyway,
In these days, all the worlds the stage,
and everyone one just wants to be the star.

This is all too heavy,
If you believe in your self,
But no one can hurt you without your consent,
And I am not giving in.

This is all too heavy,
If you believe in your self,
But no one can hurt you without your consent,
And I am not giving in.
I'm not giving in
and I'm not giving in

"I'll lend you for a little time a child of mine
For you to love - while he lives

And mourn for when he's dead.
And from the throngs that crowd
Life's lanes, I have selected you.

Now will you give her all your love,
Nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to call to
Take him back again?"

Speaking sections From poem "I'll Lend You A Child" by Edgar Guest


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    My Interpretation

    'I don't mind the people staring/ 'Cause I know they never see me anyway'

    I really identified with that line. It means that the person could be ashamed of their true selves, afraid of ridicule if they really did know him/her--and it could also be a bluff: they DO mind when people stare, and lament the fact that no one truly knows them.

    The end of the song is what really brought me to tears. In this context, the poem is basically stating that every person is here for a short time, and 'to love them while they live' and 'mourn for when their dead'. We are all unique, and no one in the entire universe will ever be like us. You, me--we will never occur again--so it's addressing the tragedy that some people aren't appreciated until it's too late--or never appreciated at all. It's an anthem to be yourself, even in the face of ridicule, and to reach the state of singularity that this atmosphere of conformity works to hard to suppress.

    So for everyone that's had the pleasure of hearing this song--this is powerful and quite a treat! Read the poem too; it's tear-jerking.

    cmm6016on February 04, 2012   Link

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